Suzanne SxySadist

Well the holidays are definitely upon us and my house is filling up with people this week.  I already have my live in slave / room mate here as well as my 19 year old nephew full time and my primary partner Brett is here generally on weekends which is a of people for me already.  

But then yesterday I drove to NJ to pick up my 20 year old neice who is going to be staying with me for about two weeks while school is out for Christmas vacation, and today when Brett comes up for the holiday he is bringing my sister and her boyfriend with him because they are staying for a few days, to spend Christmas with me and her kids. (there’s a long grisly story there but I won’t get into that in a public forum) The bottom line is, I am so not used to having so many people underfoot and this is definitely a stressful time for me so I would sooo much rather be beating some sweet masochistic boys right now but I can’t with so many frigging people here!  Grrr!!  

I of course want everything to be perfect (because I have a teensy little control freak streak wich I am sure surprises you right?) and planning meals for 7 people one of who is practically vegetarian and another that has allergies to at least one of my favorite foods is a pain in the ass! Not to mention the long waits for the bathroom… (thank God I have two at least).  And the truth is where I MOST want to be for Christmas morning is with my God child watching her eyes as she opens her treasures. THAT’S my favorite part.  <grin> 

Anyway, I have to get up and get dressed and get the day underway but I don’t know if I will get a chance to stop back before Christmas so I want to just take a moment to wish any readers that I do have out there in spite of my sporadic posting habits a very merry Christmas … and all the best in the 2009! Much love and happiness to you all .. always!  Suze

If you think you might be going .. this is the time to do it:  

REGISTER BEFORE 12/31/08 TO GET THE CURRENT EARLY REGISTRATION RATE OF $155.00!

Many from AZ, CA, FL, GA, IA, IL, IN, KY, MA, MD, MN, MO, NC, NJ, NV, NY, OH, OR, UT, VA, WA, WI and Canada have already taken advantage of our early registration discounts.  Registration will be limited.  Don’t miss out!

4 DAYS OF CLASSES, 3 NIGHTS OF PLAY, SHOPPING, FUN, EDUCATION & FRIENDSHIP!

Shibaricon is the world’s premier annual exhibition and conference that focuses on education and information exchange among lovers of rope bondage. Shibaricon has become a treasured retreat where rope lovers from all over the world come together as a supportive community, learn new skills, and experience the joy of using those new skills to enhance relationships, both new and old.

This year’s instructor lineup will include:

Lee Harrington, Jimi Tatu, M. Yu, Mike West, Lochai. Jay Wiseman, Tony Buff, DogTrainer1974, Mark DV8 House, Mick & Dee Luvbight, Graydancer, Dov, Sir C, Punzel, Morpheous, BossBondage, LadyGold, Suzanne SxySadist, and many, many more!  Check http://www.shibaricon.com for more details on the presenter lineup and class schedule in the next couple of months.  Shibaricon will offer over 85 classes in 7 concurrent sessions over 4 days.  Whether you are a rope bondage beginner or a seasoned rigger Shibaricon will have something for you!

Shibaricon is produced by lovers of rope, for lovers of rope. We welcome you to join us to experience the magic created when so many rope lovers come together. Please join us in 2009 and make the 6th Annual Shibaricon the best yet!

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SHIBARICON

MAY 22-25, 2009

CHICAGO, IL  USA

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
 
THE THIRD ANNUAL GLOBAL ORGASM FOR PEACE

The organizers of the Global Orgasm, evolutionary behaviorists Donna Sheehan and Paul Reffell, would like everyone to synchronize their greatest surge of physical and spiritual power on the Solstice, December 21st between the hours of 11 a.m. and 1 p.m. Greenwich Mean Time.
 
The theory is that if enough people can experience orgasm in the same time frame while projecting a conscious intention for peace and harmony on the planet, a surge of physical and spiritual positivity will infuse the Earth’s energy field.
 
“We’re going to zap The Field with joy and put a smile on the world’s faces,” enthused Reffell.
 
Any measurable effects will show up at The Global Consciousness Project (http://noosphere.princeton.edu) in Princeton, NJ, which runs a network of Random Event Generators around the world, which record changes in their randomness during global events. The results show that the physical effects of human consciousness can be measured.
 
The Global-O is just one part of what Sheehan and Reffell call their Evolutionary Revolution, which aims to increase consciousness of the necessity for true partnership between the Female and Male in all humans. “The only way our species can survive is by using both the male and female brains to solve our problems. Right now we’re seeing a shift away from Alpha posturing towards the Mindful Male, the true masculine and feminine joining to redefine progress and success,” said Sheehan. “Our new book, Redefining Seduction: Women Initiating Courtship, Partnership and Peace, explores the scientific basis of how quickly we can evolve into partnership modality and shift Alpha displays such as war and greed into prosperity and loving relationships.”

This year, it seems they’ve even received God’s sanction, after the Rev. Ed Young of Texas announced a ‘sexperiment’ to his megachurch congregation, exhorting them all to have sex every day for a week, “putting God back in the bed”.
 
“We’re very encouraged to hear that God is behind the idea of more people having good sex, and we hope everyone, believers and non-believers, will use this time to practice for the Global Orgasm,” said Reffell. “We’d like to remind everyone, since human population (6.8 billion) is at the root of so many global problems, not to create a baby boom from the Global-O, at least until we all get the hang of the conscious intention thing.”

In the two previous Global-O’s, there were 17 million hits during December, with Spain winning the Global Hits Contest. “Interview requests have been arriving for weeks from around the world and all year we’ve been getting up to 200,000 hits a month, so this year looks set to be off the charts. The blogs are buzzing with a Global Giggle,” said Sheehan.
 

Contacts:

USA/Canada/Europe: English – Donna Sheehan & Paul Reffell N. California – info@global-o.org
Europe: French, German, Dutch and Friesian – Baukje Schaafsma – Holland - bauwauw@yahoo.com
Europe/LatinAmerica: Spanish – Ángel Domínguez – Spain - angel@globulart.com

For more information: www.GlobalOrgasm.org and www.RedefiningSeduction.com

OMG! Words cannot really do justice to how amazing TSO (Trans Siberian Orchestra) really is in concert! The energy they put into their show is phenomenal and light show is simply spectacular!!  Lazers and pyro techniques and so much more give a visual feast while you try to keep up with the guitarists and violinists who run around the stage and even out to a stage in the center of the audience, playing like mad!!  

One of the things I love most about TSO is that although many of the individual performers are stellar vocalists and musicians, there is no grand standing and you never get the feeling that anyone in particular is the star of the show.  They work wonderfully together as a very tight and cohesive group.  This was my second year in a row seeing them and I could not imagine that they could be any better than they were last year but I think they were.  I also like that they never seem to lose sight of their rock and roll roots. Last year at the end of the show they brought out Roger Daltry of “The Who” and we just about frigging died.  This year, they brought out Steven Tyler of Aerosmith who is probably my favorite all time classic rocker! I was stunned and screaming til I was nearly hoarse!! 

Of course the drive home from Long Island to Poughkeepsie afterwards was a bit of a drag since we were so tired but it was so worth it!!  It was a wonderful night out with dear friends and family members and I hope that we can continue to go each year as a family tradition.

Ok that’s enough for tonight .. be back soon. 

I had to stop by and tell you about a experience that I had earlier this week with a delightful young lady from Vassar college who had bid on and won a couple of certificates that I donated to raise money for Squirm magazine (the campus porn mag).  This lovely gal is fairly new to the lifestyle but has spent more time as a top than as a bottom and wanted to see what it would be like to submit to a powerful woman.  <grin>  I am such a lucky girl sometimes!! 

In particular she wanted to explore bondage and she warned me that she might be rather feisty once the rope touched her skin.  (I LOVE fiesty by the way) <BIG GRIN> But since I planned to suspend her and make her squirm for me I decided that I wanted to establish right up front that I could make this unpleasant for her if I wanted to so I grabbed a thin piece of cord and threw her into a classic hojo - jutsu tie that tied her wrists pretty firmly and incorporated her throat so that if she struggled too much she would strangle herself slowly.

I let her squirm a little in that and then took that out and did a “quick and dirty” chest tie, added a hip harness and hoisted her into the air on her back.  Once I added the support ropes for her legs and i knew that she was firmly in the air I decided to pull out a cordless vibe and give her something to REALLY squirm about. (Did I mention that I really LOVE my work?)

Later on I put her face down into a modified hog tie with one ankle up which was reminiscent for me of a tie my dear friend Mac had put me in. She squirmed some more and then a fair bit more, especially when I brought out the canes and even later on the floggers (which she later told me she enjoyed the best).

I am hoping she and I will get together again in the near future and in the mean time she said I could share a couple of the photos I took that afternoon here. 

In other news.. the frenzied pace is picking up as we head closer and closer to the holidays.  I will fill you in on more soon but the next few days are going to be pretty hectic. 

Friday I have to drive to Long Island with my Leather Family to meet up with Brett so that we can all go to see Trans Siberian Orchestra!  Wooohooo!  We went last year and they put on a truly spectacular show!  Then at the end of the night I am heading home with the family to crash (probably somewhere around 10 hours of driving all told).  And then to round off the weekend I am having around a dozen people over Saturday night for a house party!  Then early next week my neice is coming to visit for the holidays and will be satying with me for about 2 weeks. Whew .. busy busy busy!

I will stop back and let you know how it all goes! Have a great weekend!  

I got the following email from Diana that the website is up and they have already started advance registration for my personal favorite event of the year: Shibaricon!  I only plan to present at a handful of events in 2009 and Shibaricon is one of them!  Check out her email for more info:

Hello Rope Lovers,

Please check out our recently updated site http://www.shibaricon.com

Shibaricon 2009
May 22-25, 2009
Chicago, IL USA

Register before 12/31/08 to take advantage of the early registration
rate of $155.00!

4 DAYS OF CLASSES
Whether you are a novice or advanced rigger Shibaricon has something
for you! Over 4 days, attendees will have access to more than 80
classes taught best instructors around including Mark Yu, Mike West,
Jimi Tatu, Lee Harrington, DogTrainer1974 of www.meninrope.com,
Lochai, Mark of DV8 House, Sir C, Dov, Suzanne SxySadist, LadyGold,
Tony Buff and too many more to list. Check out
http://www.shibaricon.com for detailed presenter information in the
coming months.

3 EVENINGS OF PLAY
Practice your newly learned rope skills in our fully-equipped play
space until 3:00am for 3 consecutive nights!

VENDOR MALL
Shibaricon will have a great selection of vendors selling all sorts
of kinky goodies including rope, toys, corsets, shoes and much, much more!

Please join us for what will be a wonderful weekend of education, fun
& friendship.

Thanks,
Diana

On this Thanksgiving Day I want to share a message about a special mission with you and ask you to think about how often you take for granted the ability to simply share a smile.

The Smile Train is a non profit organization dedicated to changing the lives of children born with cleft palates.

This may not sound like so special but children born in developing nations do not have access to this simple low cost surgery and as a result many of them are abandoned or left to die.  This horrible disfigurement severley affects their ability to eat and communicate and if left uncorrected they will grow up leading tortured lonely lives.

In just 45 mins, for as little as $250.00  lives of these kids can be changed forever, giving them a chance at a life they could not even dare to dream of before. 

Earlier this year I sent off a moderate donation to the smile train and a few months later I received the before and after photos of a child whose life I helped to change. I was stunned by the difference and it made me feel really good to know that I have helped her.  Really helped her in a very tangible way!

So often when I send money to an organization I don’t know how much of it is actually being put to work doing some good and how much of it is going to making Christmas labels to send to folks to try to raise more money. With a staff of less than 40 people The Smile Train is a the largest cleft palate charity there is but they maintain a very low overhead so all of the monies raised goes directly to helping these kids! 

This holiday season as you look at the smiling faces of the people in your life, please consider helping to put a smile on the face of someone else, possibly for the very first time!

If that thought is not incentive enough, I would love to discount any play or training sessions with me by the amount you donate.  So if you send the Smile Train folks $25.00 for example and show me the letter they send you in thanks, I will discount your next meeting with me by that amount to express my thanks as well! In fact, show me any proof of donation to a children’s charity in 2009 and I will match your donation with a session discount!

Thank you for reading this and I want to wish you and all of yours a very Happy Thanksgiving!

I have been noticeably absent once again, longer than usual this time.  Things have been a little overwhelming lately and I have been thrown a couple of interesting curve balls that have been keeping me pretty busy lately.

One major one involved having my 19 year old nephew move into my home. That has been really interesting and awkward as hell, let me tell you! I won’t get into any of the details or reasons why he is here now but it definitely has created a bit of culture shock and adjustment time for all concerned.  I am happy to say that we are mostly settling in now and it seems we are learning to co exist more peacefully now.  (And chances are good I won’t have to kill or even torture the boy much.) 

Hmm Black Rose was great this year! Brett and I went down for the Halloween weekend event and had a really wonderful time again!  I taught three classes this time around and got great feedback from the folks who attended. I also just taught again over at Vassar college and they plan to invite me back for a 2 part series of bondage classes in the spring which I am really looking forward to!

However in the meantime I have decided to pretty much take some time off from teaching and travelling the way I have been.  I am just way too tired of packing and unpacking and schlepping through airport security and spending far too much money on events when what I REALLY need is a vacation to some sweet little tropical spot.

Brett and I took a mini sanity break last weekend that started with a truly fabulous dinner at the Culinary Institutes’s Escoffier Restaurant which is advertised to consist of classic French cuisine with a contemporary touch. I started with the Foie Gras and continued with the chicken breast stuffed with shrimp and spinach, while Brett had a lovely “surf & turf” appetizer followed by a delicious duck dish. I also greatly enjoyed a little cocktail that the bartender came up with called a Hudson Valley Harvest that had a pumpkin infused vodka mixed with a bit of Frangellica.  In fact, I liked it so much I had two of them! And then while I was at it for dessert I ordered a dessert wine sampler that included a Sauternes and one other sweet wine that for me was the perfect end to a fabulous meal! Although the place is a fair bit pricier than I would frequent often, I would definitely enjoy dining there again and checking out some of the CIA’s other fine offerings. 

To contnue our weekend break, the next afternoon we checked into a suite at the Inn at the Falls that boasted a HUGE jacuzzi tub and a fabulous four poster canopy bed! Wow what a tub!  We were both able to fully stretch out in it and simply soak for awhile and let the world slide off our backs for the night! No phones, no email, no one to bother us at all.

But I sure did bring some toys and rope!!  In fact, I had an absolute blast tying up my beloved in several very hot very vulnerable positions and having my way with him most of the evening.   And although I took a few photos for personal memoirs I would rather not share this set here but I do promise to try and get more visually interesting here soon. In the meantime, I am going to go watch a movie and relax for the rest of the evening and I do hope that you all have a wonderful Thanksgiving and that you find yourself having much to be thankful for! 

No not that kind!  <grin>  I had the house totally to my self today for awhile (except for the pets and they are sworn to secrecy) so I cranked my Ipod  with a set of the lamest “bubble gum pop tunes” of all time and danced around the house while doing a bit of house keeping and being totally silly!  I would never admit to having any of these tunes on there intentionally but I love them! 

So this adorable 30 something year old guy named Tyler from Minneapolis called me tonight to tell me he is locked up in a cb 2000and has been for over 2 months!!! How hot is that!!?? Furthermore he is looking for a new key holder because the Mistress that holds his key now is leaving the lifestyle!! 

We talked for an entire hour and it got me to thinking about how much I love keeping a man in either enforced or voluntary chastity because it totally turns me on to be in control of all of that erotic energy and knowing they are saving it all for me, every second, with every breath channeling all of that sexual juice, getting more and more turned on but unable to do anything about it. <grin> 

Umm yeah.. I am going to go enjoy that thought for a little while and release a little energy of my own.    Thanks for the chat Tyler!!