Suzanne SxySadist’s Personal Blog

The life & times, ups & downs and general musings of a professional sexual sadist.

May 15, 2009

Brett’s Birthday Weekend (Or, “It’s your birthday, you will cry if I want you to!”)

Filed under: Personal Reflections — Suzanne SxySadist @ 8:41 am

I Luv U!Last Thursday was my sweetheart Brett’s 49th birthday and I was feeling even more sadistic and dominant than usual and decided to push both our limits just a bit.  ;)

We have experimented in the past with short term chastity but to be honest, I really LOVE sex with my boyfriend and rarely deny myself for very long ~ so I almost never leave him in chastity longer than a few hours when he is here with me .  Although I have a variety of chastity devices that are not intentionally designed to be painful such as the cb devices, being a sadist at heart I totally love the concept of chastity with teeth as mentioned in a previous blog post. 

However I am also practical enough to realize that if I intended to keep it on all weekend, and I did, I might want to do so with the least amount of damage possible, since I am rather fond of that pretty cock and it’s keeper. :)

I opted to use the Club Femme MCD - Male Chastity Device .  Although it is a little tricky to weave the zip tie in and out of the device to get a really good tight fit, I can tell you for a fact that once in place it is definitely secure enough to stay there.  Brett quickly discovered that it was not coming off without tearing up some delicate flesh in the process.  ;)

MCD- Male chastity deviceHe also discovered very quickly that even though he could still get a rock hard erection (albeit with a bit of encouragement from me and a fair bit of un-comfortability) there was no way he would be able to reach orgasm because the short closely spaced little points were just too damn sharp and discouraging. 

Ohh what a delicious time I had trying though!   I locked him in on Thursday afternoon and proceeded to tease him off and on for over an hour.  God I love the sexy way that man squirms for me!  Friday morning I woke up horny and ordered him to orally service me for awhile.   Although that act is all about my pleasure, is sure works for him on some pretty sexy levels too and next thing I know his poor cock was once again being spiked and poked in all directions at once and he was making those really sexy pretty noises for me again which totally work for me!  :D

He stayed in that sweet little device the rest of the weekend .. including  all through the rope club gathering on Sunday.  By Sunday evening though he was respectfully asking if it would be possible for me to take him back out so he could see what was left of his cock before he goes back to Long Island for the work week.  I thought three nights and four days was a fairly good test run and was fairly curious myself to see how bad that baby had torn him up so we snipped it off.  I was a bit surprised to discover that this device had drawn blood in quite a few places but over all he seemed fine. :) I am considering locking him in for the week we are away in Chicago but in the meantime I am REALLY looking forward to seeing him tonight!

February 15, 2009

Male Chastity Part 2

Filed under: Product Reviews — Suzanne SxySadist @ 2:02 am

Male Chastity w/ Teeth

Mistress Owns Your Cock!

My last installment about male chastity devices basically covered the “CB” product line which offer a nice selection of basic inexpensive chastity devices. If properly fitted they are fairly secure and only moderately uncomfortable … but have I mentioned that I am a sadist at heart? Or that I adore CBT (aka Cock & Ball Torture)? :)

I absolutely admit to taking perverse pleasure in locking a man’s cock into a device that will cause him excruciating pain if he begins to get an erection, and of course once he is in it, I love to tease him and make him cry, beg and whimper as I do my best to get and keep him hard.

You can analyze that any way you wish but it is absolutely delightfully wicked fun for me and so I totally enjoy collecting cruel chastity items and other things that go “Ow”! Let me tell you about a few of my faves!!

ktb-closeupThe Dreaded KTB - Kali’s Tooth Bracelet!!

Mmm Let’s Get Mean! - My all time favorite chastity device is still the original Kali’s Teeth Bracelet (pictured below) These babies were absolutely ingenious! Once locked in place they were streamlined sexy, secure as hell, lightweight enough that they could remain on without “dragging”, and they had the most delightfully vicious teeth that were available in different degrees of cruelty! Obviously the most severe one was most suitable for men with castration fantasies and the women that love them. :)

My ex had one and I used to love locking him into it for entire weekends at a time! I especially loved putting it onto him and then going down on him because it would make him insane that as much as he loved my lips around his cock it was also pure agony at the same time. (Did I mention I am a sadist?) I would give pretty much anything (and be an extremely grateful Mistress) to get my hands on an original KTB or a very reasonable facsimile there of! Any takers??

Kali's Teeth Bracelets

Club Fem’s MCD - MCD

The folks over at Club Fem are offering a sweet little plastic version of a toothed chastity device that they call simply the MCD - Male Chastity DeviceI ordered recently and intend to check out thoroughly as soon as it arrives and get back to you with a full report!

It is quite inexpensive and looks to have great potential for longer term wear than other devices I have seen since it is lightweight, not overly vicious and appears easy to keep clean. I am very excited indeed!

SxySadist Toothed Rings The SxySadist Toothed Ring!

While I await that happy day that one of those falls into my lap again, my buddy Rick over at Dungeon Delights has been creating a really delightful selection of heavier, meatier substitutes for me and even named them after me!!

Check these babies out! It all started one Sunday morning as I lay in bed cruising the web looking for new devices to torment my lover’s cock when I came across the Dungeon Delights website. They had a really nice locking cock ring shown on the site that intrigued me so I gave them a call (and was actually quite surprised that they answered the phone on a Sunday morning) and had a lovely chat with Rick about the KTB.

Barely a week later I had a set of proto types in my hot little hands to check out! Talk about fast and efficient service! Wow!!

They are beautifully crafted devices and definitely built to last! They offer a variety of intensities depending on how many rows and how long you want the nails.

Are they mean? Hell Yeah! These nails are definitely sharp but no where near as sharp as the KTB was so they are actually a bit safer in my opinion. Although his website warns that these are sharp enough to break the skin that has not been my experience so far. I have had some serious “dents” in the cock but so far no blood drawn (although I am not gaurenteeing that to anyone).

The powder coating makes them easy to clean and they are definitely beautiful in an industrial heavy metal sort of way!! My main complaint with them is that they are soo damn heavy that they have a tendency to slide off the moment the erection waivers so they were not terribly suited for long term wear. <Boo hoo hoo!>

Then Rick came out with the double ring version! <Yayy!> :D Again, not elegant but definitely gets the job done and I feel fairly reasonably priced!! JT’s has started offering them also under the original Kali’s Teeth name in the Beginner and Advanced versions. :) Maybe I am a little bit biased but I think EVERYONE should own a couple of them! And then come on over here so I can help do more market research! :D More soon!

April 16, 2008

And the verdict is…

Filed under: Simply Blogging — Suzanne SxySadist @ 11:50 am

I TOTALLY LOVE IT! 

Several VERY heavy boxes arrived today from my new friend over at DUNGEON DELIGHTS and I was thrilled to discover that they added some sweet little bonus goodies for me with my order!  This guy is truly top notch!  The powder coat on the pieces give them a deliciously smooth finish and they are just superby made! Not a bur or rough edge to be found anywhere.

I could hardly wait to piece the unit together and it was not terribly difficult to do from looking at a picture on the web but I do think it would have been nice if they included an instruction sheet or little schematic of some sort.  That was a minor inconvenience though and it certainly did not take away from my enthusiasm!!  The moment it was together I decided to slap my buddy Rubber Boy in it for a bit of a test drive!

Let me tell ya… this baby has some pretty sweet potential!!  It is delightfully adjustable and very versatile.  The added spreader bars allow you to create longer or shorter distances between wrists and ankles and you can also combine the bars in different ways creating an impaler toy or a standing body stocks.  

I also simply cannot wait to try my new “SxySadist Toothed Rings”  (Yes that is the name I think they will be marketed under! I love that my name is going to be attached to this evil little device and that in the coming month or years, 100s of men will be cursing or praising my name.  It would be pretty sweet to have it become as much of a household name as the KTB - “Kali’s Tooth Bracelet”)!! 

My sweetheart is due here Friday evening and I have decided to save these babies specifically to christen with him.  <sweet smile> It is going to be an awesome weekend! 

I also just got off the phone with Rick over at Dungeon Delights and he says that he is going to have at least one drilled up for me and then welded to have as many small viciously spiky nails as possible, (he says he is hoping for like 50)! I am wet just thinking about it and will let you know when it arrives!!  Talk more soon!