Professional Domination by Mz Suzanne SxySadist

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I enjoy many different aspects of BDSM (bondage / discipline, sado masochism, dominance / submission) and a diverse array of scene related activities including:

restrictive, decorative & erotic bondage, japanese style shibari bondage, rope suspension, mummification, corporal punishment (whipping, flogging, spanking etc), forced feminization, sissy / slut maid training & mild humiliation & verbal degradation, strap on training, tease and denial, CBT (cock & ball genital torture), nipple torture, psycho drama & adult roleplay, medical fetish & examination including: catheters, needles, piercings, saline infusions, some forms of fetish worship (foot, leg, boot, shoe, leather, latex) trampling, and much more!

I appreciate that not all activities appeal to all submissives & bottoms. While the sadist in me absolutely adores being able to torture a masochistis slave, I am also able to enjoy playing lightly while introducing new comers to this world in a safe, sane and consensual manner.

However, I too have things in which I do not engage, either because they are illegal, they do not appeal to me or because I feel they are too unsafe to practice in a professional session. For more info on these things see my "No / Not List".

Here are some of my favourite things to do in my studios. See if they are yours too or e-mail me with your request.

The Art of Rope Bondage

Corporal Punishment

Foot / Fetish Worship

Candle and Wax Play

Electro Torture

Nipple & C&B Torture

Needle & Suture Play

CDs and TVs

Anal / Dildo Play

Conscious Breathing / Breath Play

Mummification & Suspension

Sensory Deprivation

Medical Scenarios

Psycho Drama & Role Play

The Art of Rope Bondage

Leather cuffs are fun, but there is nothing like the feel of rope sliding through my hands, as I lovingly lay it on delicate flesh. Carefully crisscrossing each coil, weaving it in and out of itself, and wrapping it in layers to make an intricate, unique and artistic design that accentuates the body it surrounds and adorns.

Perhaps, once I have trapped you with in my ropes I will choose to lift you from the ground and suspend you in mid air, swinging back and forth helplessly in the breeze.

No two rope bondage creations are ever exactly alike, just as no two people can ever be, but the art of rope bondage allows me an artistic expression I find in few other places.

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Corporal Punishment / Percussion Play

Corporal is definitely a favourite of mine although I much prefer the term "percussion play". To me punishment is a very negative term and while I enjoy role playing "naughty slave needs to be spanked" now and then, I do not necessarily see this activity as a punishment and I do NOT use it as a means of correcting bad or inappropriate behavior with my own slaves although a little naughty role play can be fun (and then it isn't really punishment is it?).

I adore the sound of leather and wood on bare flesh and the heat and glow it leaves. It doesn't have to always be severe, in fact a sweet slow build up is usually best. Then perhaps a soft touch as I drag my nails, a feather or rabbit fur over the tender skin and then warm it some more.

I am very highly skilled with a signal whip and a cane as well and these are two of my all time favorite ways to explore sensation!

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Foot / Fetish Worship

I have a special appreciation for my wonderful foot slaves. I love to have my toes licked and sucked and my feet massaged whenever possible. It is a glorious feeling and knowing that the person doing it truly enjoys it makes it that much more wonderful for me.

Along similar lines I also enjoy doing fantasy sessions with several other types of fetishists as well. Shoes, boots, legs, pantyhose, etc.

There are a wide variety of things that people find to hold special magic and attraction. I very much enjoy helping them reach new heights of joy in exploring their fetishes. I do not cater to ALL fetishes but I do enjoy a very wide selection of them. If yours was not listed and is not on my No - Not list, feel free to write a polite email regarding it.

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Candle and Wax Play

I adore playing with wax. I use several different types of candles to achieve my desired effects. The small white candles that drip slowly across your flesh burn just hot enough to make you wince as each drop finds it's mark.

I also enjoy pouring soft, oily, sweetly scented wax directly from my hand over your body, letting it flow warmly over your skin, anointing you in pleasure. It is truly a delicious feeling and I enjoy introducing people to it for the first time.

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Electro Torture

The Violet Wand is an instrument used in SM play that emits safe tiny electrical zaps of varying but controllable intensity to the surface of the skin.  The way I most enjoy using it is when I use the attachment that allows the sparks to fly from my fingertips and tongue as I stroke, caress and kiss delicate areas. It must be felt to truly understand the affect and feeling.

There are several other types of scene related electrical toys in my arsenal such as the PSG Max, Hotboxx and Erostek which all have lovely little attachments for various parts of the body.

A personal favorite to use as a "warm up." I also have a TENs Unit which has a sensation that is difficult to describe. The electric impulses go deeper and cause involuntary muscle contractions. Both these devices are safe for my purposes when used on persons in good health. I have been advised that they should not be used on anyone with a heart condition, (but then the same could be said about a lot of my favorite activities).

Please inform me ahead of time if you have a heart condition!!

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Nipple & C&B Torture

I have a definite nipple fetish. Why else would men have nipples if it wasn't so they could be pinched, bitten, sucked, clamped and teased?? Nuff said!! No one ever leaves my dungeon without tender nipples!!

And as for CBT? Mmm... so many delightfully wicked things to do. All I can say is... Slurrrpp!! The male anatomy lends itself to so many devious forms of torture. Weights, ropes, clothes pins, wax, needles, electro torture, just to name a few. What's your favorite?

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Needle Play & other blood sports

Definitely not for every one, but this is another personal favorite of mine. There is something about passing sharp unyielding needles through tender sweet flesh that is erotic & delicious for me. It is incredibly invasive and almost sexual in nature for me.

I also enjoy using needles as anchor points on the body for bondage or creating laced patterns with thin twine between the needles. And when I am feeling very creatively sadistic I get out my suture kits and see what lovely but wicked things I can do with them.

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CDs and TVs

I love to play dress up with my "girlfriends."  Some like to play little girl fantasies with me others want to be my lesbian "lover". There is something very exciting about making a man put on a dress and stockings then bending "her" over, spanking "her" naughty little ass and then well, other things come to mind. Unfortunately, most of my little sluts prefer that I don't post their pics on my site, but I will see about adding a few more as I go along. I can be quite a talented negotiator at times.

I have been on little shopping sprees lately and have picked up new clothes and make up and some jewelry to go along with the wigs and shoes and such in my CD closet. My new play space in Dutchess County includes a separate dressing parlor just for CDs!!

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Anal / Dildo Play

This will be a longer explanation so that I can tell you a bit about my feelings on this subject, the way I approach it and the reasons for my fascination and enjoyment of it.

From the time we are very young most of us were taught that anything having to do with our asses is dirty, nasty or just plain disgusting. It is not something we are supposed to talk about let alone explore or enjoy. It is hard enough for straight women to admit to enjoying anal sex but it is nearly unheard of for a straight man to discuss his desires in that area with most people. Many would love to explore the pleasures that are associated with anal play but are ashamed to admit it due to misconceptions about what is OK for a "man" to enjoy or due to fears that it will hurt too much.

Well, first of all, let me assure you that enjoying ass play doesn't make you "queer" or less of a man. There are tons of delicate little nerve endings in our sphincter muscles that can be deliciously sensitive to the right sort of touch for women as well as men. Also the male prostrate gland can be stimulated by pressure there and although I may not have first hand knowledge of how that feels exactly,  I can assure you I have seen the results of that stimulation and they are amazing.

Many of my friends enjoy this type of play and I strive to learn as much as I can about it. I have recently begun exploring Tantric and Taoist massage techniques that focus on anal pleasure and conscious breathing. Through these techniques it is possible not only to relax the body completely but also to build the sexual energy to amazing levels and then channel it and create altered states of consciousness.

Generally, I begin by padding my nails, then gently explore and massage with a well lubricated gloved finger. When and if my play partner is receptive and ready I move onto small condom covered dildos and gradually work up to larger ones, even strap-on ones, if the muscles are relaxed enough to allow it. I have several friends that are even able to handle fisting given enough time and lubrication.

I find it to be a great honor that so many people have allowed me to explore this secret and vulnerable realm with them. I definitely enjoy helping special people realize their fantasies and desires to explore ass play to whatever degree they are comfortable with, once I feel a connection with them. I especially love introducing "virgins" to the pleasures of anal play, and love the fact that I have collected so many "cherries" along my travels. (grin)

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Conscious Breathing / Breath Play

I have been fascinated with breath play ever since my first sub experience. My First Dom placed two fingers on my throat, applied a little bit of pressure and dropped me to my knees instantly! I was hooked! I was in awe of the effect that it had and the sensations it created as well as the idea that he could so easily control my every breath. I had to learn more!

I begged him to teach me the technique and it was really quite simple. The method he used and has taught me doesn't actually involve choking or compression of the windpipe. It is compression of the carotid arteries, a very similar technique as the one used by police and medics to restrain people, or the "sleeper hold" made famous by wrestlers.

I have heard so many people tell me that there is no safe way to do breath play so I did a survey of a bunch of kink aware professionals on the net and basically I was told the biggest dangers are: 1.) applying too much pressure and crushing the windpipe (which isn't necessary, a little pressure does the trick and 2.) doing it on older people who may have arterial blockages that could come loose even with a little pressure and cause a stroke. That sounded valid enough so I refrain from practicing my little "neck trick" on older clients, instead if they are interested in breath play I go for plan B!

Smothering. Yeah sounds scary I know but it can be very, very erotic (lol) especially the way I do it. : ) My favorite method is to pinch off the nose and then cover the clients whole mouth with my own so that I can look deeply into his eyes as I take his breath away. Mmmm God I love that!!

Whew OK back to my article (got carried away for a second there and lost my train of thought). Anyway with either of those methods I can watch the subs face the whole time and monitor for signs of trouble and know what is going on with him/her. I feel it is very important to be able to see his or her eyes so that I can tell exactly how deep he is going and know when to let the pressure off.

The feeling is hard to describe and I have noticed the effect manifests itself differently from person to person. When it is done to me, I feel a momentary flash of panic, which I guess is the body's natural reaction to decreased blood flow to the brain, but then there is this glorious feeling of free falling and then an amazing feeling of floating and ecstasy. My body goes limp and I begin to twitch and moan and I completely lose track of where I am for a few seconds that seems like an eternity. As soon as the pressure is released my head clears and I come up feeling amazingly high and alive and that all is right with the world!! I absolutely adore the sensation and so far don't feel any ill effects from it's use even after nearly 6 years since I first tried it. (I am not brain dead yet either or at least I don't think I am)

There is one other form of breath control that I have recently begun to dabble in. I attended an Ecstatic Breathing seminar at Black Rose '99 that was given by a Robert Sheavely (God I hope I spelled his name right) Anyway it was one of the best seminars I have ever been privileged to attend. I won't go into a lot about the class but I will say that he is associated with the Body Electric School based in Oakland CA and they are well worth finding out more information about. I plan to attend one of their workshops in April next year and look forward to it very much!!

Through rhythmic conscious breathing he was able to guide us to a state of super increased energy within the body, then showed us a way to channel that energy into an altered state of consciousness. It was an absolutely amazing feeling that was even more powerful than conventional orgasm. I have recently begun teaching this method to a few select clients and they have all enjoyed it very much. I look forward to exploring it more with my friends and playmates.

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Mummification & Suspension Scenes

For some of my extreme bondage fans... nothing beats total immobilization. So out comes the saran wrap and possibly some interesting breathing apparatus. I have even done some extended scenes that have included catheterization... (well I hate to interrupt a session just to let a guy pee, geez.) I mean what would you do?

I have also been getting into suspension scenes as well and am finding them to be an awful lot of fun. There is something about having a naked body dangling from my dungeon ceiling that just does things to me. Gotta LOVE it!!

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Sensory Deprivation

Sensory Dep. usually involves extreme bondage such as mummification, then cutting off the senses of sight (blindfold) and sound (earplugs) with an addition of a gag at times or other breath play device to make things a wee bit more interesting. I also have a fascinating device called Photo Sonix that uses light & audio to alter brain wave patterns temporarily, producing a variety of effects. Definitely best done in extended sessions.

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Medical / Doctor / Nurse Scenarios

Medical play runs much deeper than simply tossing on a sexy nurses uniform and checking someone's temperature. There are numerous "procedures" that I may need to perform on you as I do my very thorough examination. After I check the basics: ears, eyes, throat etc., and of course a complete prostrate exam, you may need to have your reflexes checked with a variety of electrical devices that will make your pulse race.

Depending on what ails you and my wicked moods you may also need to be sounded (urethral sounds = metal rods of varying thickness that are inserted into the urethra), catheterized or a myriad of other evil medical tortures! I have recently added saline infusion to my medical bag of tricks. <wicked grin>

Do you dare make an appointment with Dr. SxySadist or Nurse Nasty?

If medical scenarios are an interest of your please visit my medical fetish site to make an appointment:

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Psycho Drama & Role Play Scenes

Fear & humiliation can be so sexy. I enjoy using my imagination to create a variety of role play scenarios & love to plan special scenes for people on a wide array of topics such as: nurse / doctor & patient (see Medical play above), kidnappings, interrogations, medieval torture & mock executions, etc.

I also enjoy some tamer role plays like:

- Mommy / nanny & child: Remember when your biggest responsibility was not soiling yourself so mommy would be proud of you? Age play can be a lot of fun and I like playing with dolls, coloring with crayons, & reading bed time stories. I do NOT mix SM play with age play any further than a mild spanking.

- Teacher & student: Did you do all your homework like a good boy? You'd better hope so cause in my class room a note from your mommy will NOT get you out of detention!

- Boss / secretary / employee: I can't tell you how many men have confessed to me about fantasizing about dominant secretaries. Maybe she found out some little secret that you would really prefer your wife not hear about, or perhaps she just finally got tired of taking orders from you and has decided you need a dose of your own medicine (oh wait that belongs in medical play, giggle).

At any rate I very much enjoy many types of scenarios because they let my creative juices run wild. Got an idea for a scene you have always wanted to try... write to me with your suggestion and maybe we can set it up!

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Legal Notice

Please remember, Professional Dominants are not prostitutes! The Practice of B/D, S/M and sensual sadism isn't prostitution and the offer of sexual services are neither implied or offered here. Asking a Dominatrix or other professional Dominant for sexual services may constitute solicitation in some states and is illegal. If prostitution is what you desire, please do not contact me. If you choose to contact me, it is understood that you do so as an adult that is over 21 years of age, that you are responsible for your own actions and you are doing so of your own free will.

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