The "Rules of Engagement"
If you wish to be considered for a session with me there are several things you need to know.
First and foremost I am a professional Dominant. I realize that many people that seek the services of a professional such as myself may have also seen full service escorts. I do not consider myself better than them, I simply do not offer the same services and I definitely do NOT offer sex for money. Although my sessions can be very sensual & erotic, my personal boundaries do NOT include having sexual relations or exchanges of body fluids of any kind with clients. In addition to the obvious, this means: I do NOT allow any form of oral body worship on what I consider to be personal areas of my body. I will occasionally allow clothed face sitting in a smothering type scene with submissive (once I feel they have earned that privilege) but do NOT ask to orally worship or satisfy me sexually as part of your submission. That is simply not going to happen in a professional setting.
I also appreciate that many men find me attractive but I get very annoyed by people that wish to treat me merely as "eye candy" or suggest that they would "enjoy the scene a lot more if I was wearing less". I will often accommodate a leg or foot fetishist by wearing nylons & heels but please do NOT think for a moment that you will get to see me if you expect me to be naked or wearing "nothing but boots & a thong" in our professional sessions.
On that note, I have come to the realization that I do not enjoy working with people that are completely and solely focused on particular fetishes. I feel that the majority of latex fetishists, for example, are far more focused on what I am wearing than the connection between us, or my skills or anything else that makes me uniquely me, so I am extremely particular about what fetishes I will entertain.
In my professional sessions I do NOT engage in any form of "showers" which includes: NO golden / brown or roman showers nor do I offer enema play sessions. I also do not engage in fart, armpit or REALLY stinky feet play. Itís not that I wish to be judgmental of peopleís kinks but if something does not resonate with me .. then I wonít go there.
Although I do anal play with some of my favorite submissive clients .. I consider it an extremely intimate act and not one that I am willing to engage in with just anyone. It is generally something that must be earned with time and devotion to me, so if that is a primary interest of yours then you should be aware that I do not "fuck on command". This means that there is NO strap on play with clients or submissives until or unless I wish to engage in it. If and when we do cross that threshold you need to arrive prepped and ready by doing an enema on yourself before you get here. I see that as a simple matter of respect and it makes the scene more enjoyable for us both.
I will NOT intentionally engage in what I deem dangerous activities or things that will do permanent damage to a subís body. Which means NO: "bagging", heavy damaging type ball kicking, castration and the like. (You would be AMAZED at some of the horrifying things I have been asked to do to some people.) Also I do temporary piercings but rarely do permanent ones, sorry. Although I do enjoy very heavy and sadistic play with my favorite pain sluts, I also have limits. If flirting with death is your kick, good luck to you, but do NOT ask me to go beyond what I consider safe, and sane play.
I am absolutely NOT a female supremacist and while I do enjoy a beautiful and deep level of submission, humility and open mindedness in my submissive playmates. I do NOT enjoy scenes that are based on emotional abuse or humiliating and degrading people. While a bit of playful embarrassment can be fun and even amusing for us both, if you feel that you need to feel extremely humiliated in order to explore this realm then I am not the right Domme for you. I am a strong believer that you attract to you the kind of energy you put out to the world and generally I feel "humiliation energy" as a negative force so it is not one that I enjoy working with on the whole. I feel that most of us already carry far too much shame in relation to our sexuality and I do not like feeding shame in people. I prefer working with people to expel it from their lives. Also, I am not overly fond of scenes that involve "forced" anything. I much prefer working with people that come to me with a desire to serve and explore and enjoy the energy that we can create together.
I also realize that many of you reading this are not necessarily submissive men and while that is understandable I absolutely expect to be spoken and written to with respect, and I will endeavor to treat you with the same until you show me you desire or deserve otherwise. If I do not know you extremely well, Do NOT call me "hun" or "sweetie". I am not your girlfriend, your mama or some two-bit call-girl you can disrespect and talk down to. I feel that level of familiarity is demeaning and chauvinistic and it truly annoys me! You may call me Maíam, Mistress or Mz Suzanne.
Furthermore, I find myself turned off by laziness, slang and blatant spelling errors and really dislike receiving text messages and emails riddled with "spelling short cuts" and typos. Although quite commonplace now, I feel the lazy, overly familiar, and illiterate use of text shorthands like "Hey whazzup?" and "How ru?" make a VERY poor first impression. I feel I am worth the effort to write out actual words, and while it may save you a few seconds here and there to take those short cuts, in my opinion it does not speak well of you at all. I would like for you to try and put your best foot forward since I find intelligence and literacy far more attractive.
If you feel you are still reading and still interested then please continue...
Rates and Availability -
My tuition for private sessions or training of any kind begins at $300 for one hour. I begin to discount the rate slightly with longer sessions as follows: 2 hours is $575, 3 hours is $800 and a 4 hour block of time is $1000. For payment I only accept cash at the time of our session or Paypal in advance and for deposits when necessary.
Although my schedule fluctuates slightly from week to week, I am generally ask at least 24 - 48 hours advance booking and am available Mon, Tue, and Wed from 10am until 8pm. On Thursday and every other Friday I am only available from 10am until 2pm due to an ongoing prior commitment. There is a little wiggle room, but not a lot.
Some Friday evenings, I am willing to receive clients and submissives for overnight sessions and / or possibly escort those desiring something exciting and different to the BDSM club "The Society" in Hartford. Special events like this of course must be booked well in advance and require a 1/3 deposit to lock it in.
I prefer not to do sessions on most Saturdays and Sundays whenever possible because: 1) My personal slave travels a great distance most weekends to spend precious little time with me and many weekends and 2) I also sometimes travel to teach at national conferences and kink events. However I realize some people have no other choice so when I do book weekends I require a 2 hour minimum as well as a deposit.
On rare occasion I find myself with an open weekend at the last minute. If you need weekends and can possibly be available on short notice be sure to state so on your application and I will add you to an exclusive private mailing list.
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Application Process -
You MUST have a working email address to apply see me. Sorry... this is absolutely non-negotiable!
In order for me to decide whether we would be a good fit I would need for you to provide me with some back ground info about your previous experience (if any) as well as some insights into what kink fantasies you currently have. I really want at least a few sentences in your own words here so I can get a feel for where you have been and where you would like me to take you.
If you ask for something that I have included in my No /Not list above I will most likely ignore or delete your application because I have gone to the trouble to inform you that I do not do those things. Please donít make me repeat myself.
If you have no experience and really do not know what your interests are say so but do please try to offer at least little insight into what you are seeking to explore. For most new people I would most likely suggest a "Newbie Sampler" session.
I will also need for you to provide me with any info you feel I may need to know about your physical or emotional being so we can play safely. This would include any emotional or physical condition (traumas, old injuries, surgeries, or medication that may impact our play etc). The actual questionnaire can be found here: Mz Suzanneís Questionnaire. Once I have the needed info we can proceed to setting up our first session.
I realize many people find this application process to be inconvenient (especially if you are trying to do the form on a mobile device) however I would like for you to see it as an investment in insuring that our encounter will be enjoyable for us both. The more insight I have into what "makes you tick", the better our first session together can be. You may also want to remember that My tuition is not inexpensive and it would behoove you to invest a bit of effort upfront to insure you will enjoy your time with me should your application be accepted.
I generally respond to all forms within 24 hours but if I am traveling or crazy busy please allow up to 72 hours. If you do not hear from me with in that time frame please send a polite email inquiry to my email address: Mistress@SxySadist.com
Availability & Location:
I can most often be found at my home location in CT's Litchfield County. I am specifically located in Winsted which is about halfway between NYC & Boston. My location is is private & discreet with safe off street parking.
To get an idea of driving distance from your location to within a few miles of mine click the link below.
I am also easily accessible via bus out of the Port Authority Bus Terminal in NYC. For schedule information please go to Peter Pan's Home Page and put Winsted as your destination.
I prefer to take appointments here Mon - Fri from 10 am - 6p but evening and weekend appointments can be arranged with special notice. Overnight sessions are also available on a very limited basis. I much prefer to book new people at least 48 - 72 hours ahead so that you can follow my confirmation procedures.
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