"No / Not List"
Although my sessions can be very sensual
& erotic, my personal boundaries do NOT include having
sexual relations with clients.
There is NO exchange of body fluids of any
kind. In addition to the obvious, this means: I do
NOT allow any form of oral body worship on the most personal
areas of my body. I will occasionally allow clothed face
sitting in a smothering type scene but do NOT ask to orally
worship or satisfy me sexually as part of your submission.
That is simply not going to happen in a professional setting.
I also appreciate that many men find me attractive but I
get very annoyed by people that wish to treat me merely
as "eye candy" or suggest that they would enjoy
the scene a lot more if I was wearing less. I will often
accommodate a leg or foot fetishist by wearing nylons &
heels but do NOT think for a moment that you will get to
see me if you expect me to be naked or wearing "nothing
but boots & a thong" in our professional session.
More people get turned down for sessions based on their
desired Mistress attire than for any other reason.
On that note, I have come to the realization that I do not enjoy working with people that are completely focused on particular fetishes. I feel that the majority of latex fetishists, for example, are far more focused on what I am wearing than the connection between us, or my skills or anything else that makes me uniquely me. I do not enjoy working with people that are just out to "get their kinky rocks off".
In my professional sessions I do NOT engage
in any form of toilet games which includes: NO golden /
brown showers! Although I do occasionally enjoy age
play sessions I DON'T change dirty diapers. Also, enema
& anal play scenes with me require that you have an
enema or otherwise clean yourself out before you get here.
I see that as a simple matter of respect and it makes the scene more enjoyable for us both. Furthermore, because of the amount of time involved expelling the fluid following an enema scene, and the fact that it is often difficult to expell that fluid completely within the time contraints of a short session, I rarely mix enema play and anal or root work in the same session because having that fluid leak all over me, my table and my dungeon is rather unpleasant for us both. This is why I request that if you wish to explore anal work with me, that you arrive already prepped for that type of exploration.
I will NOT intentionally engage in what I
deem dangerous activities or things that will do permanent
damage to a sub's body. Which means NO: "bagging,"
heavy damaging type ball kicking, castration and the like.
(You would be AMAZED at some of the horrifying things I
have been asked to do to some people.) Also I do temporary
piercings but rarely do permanent ones, sorry.
Although I do enjoy very heavy and sadistic
play with my favorite pain sluts, I also have limits. If
flirting with death is your kick good luck to you but do
NOT ask me to go beyond what I consider safe, and sane play.
I am absolutely NOT a female supremacist and I do NOT enjoy scenes that are based on abuse or humiliating and degrading people. If you NEED to feel humiliated in order to explore this realm then I am not the right Domme for you. I am a strong beleiver that you attract to you, the kind of energy you put out to the world and generally I feel "humiliation energy" as a negative force so it is not one that I enjoy working with on the whole. I feel that most of us already carry far too much shame in relation to our sexuality and I do not like feeding shame in people but rather I prefer working with people to expel it from their lives.
Also, I am not overly fond of scenes that involve "forced" anything. I much prefer working with people that come to me with a desire to serve and explore and enjoy the energy that we can create together.
If all of this is acceptable to you and you
wish to meet with me, read on.
Contact & Booking Information
Do not even consider contacting me until
you have read and understand my No / Not List above!!
Once you have done so, all prospective submissives
are required to fill out an extensive application form no
matter which type of training you are seeking. There are
This form helps me decide if I wish to meet
with you and also provides the info needed to plan our first
encounter. The form may be filled out by clicking this link:
You may email me with specific questions at
Availability & Locations:
I can most often be found at my home location in CT's Litchfield County. I am specifically located in Winsted which is about halfway between NYC & Boston. My location is is private & discreet with safe off street parking.
To get an idea of driving distance from your location to within a few miles of mine click the link below.
I am also easily accessible via bus out of the Port Authority Bus Terminal in NYC. For schedule information please go to Peter Pan's Home Page and put Winsted as your destination.
I prefer to take appointments here Mon - Fri from 10 am - 6p but evening and weekend appointments can be arranged with special notice. Overnight sessions are also available on a very limited basis. I much prefer to book new people at least 48 - 72 hours ahead so that you can follow my confirmation procedures.
For a more photos and a more detailed listing of what these facilities offer, please click here: Home Facilities
My Other Locations:
The Berkshires - La Domaine Esemar:
This has become one of my favorite places to play outside my own facilities! I am told that La Domaine is the oldest slave training chateau in the world. and I certainly believe it is the finest. I have been heading up to this location (90 miles north of Poughkeepsie ... 30 mins from Albany) two or three days a month when I can manage it. It is worth the trip!
For more information on how to book a session with me there or about this wonderful BDSM training chateau in general please email me by clicking here: La Domaine Sessions
Midtown Manhattan at Salon d'Orleans
The wonderful Miss Troy Orleans has offered
me use of her fabulous studio in Midtown NY. So if you
are in NYC or soon will be and would like to see me there
drop me a note!
Long Island NY
I grew up on Long Island and have many friends & family ties there as well as many clients from my early days as a pro domme. Once a month or so I pop down to visit, (usually for an overnight stay) and will sometimes book sessions while I am in town. (Although I do not currently have a dungeon space there that meets my specifications so I often do these sessions in a motel and bring my toy bag)
Since private sessions away from my own location require that I rent a space or a motel room to play in I unfortunately must ask for more tribute and an advance deposit to make them worthwhile for me.
For more info on these options please write to me by clicking here: Long Island Session Info
To find out when I will be there next check my Travel & Events page.
Other visiting cities
I do travel a fair bit for leather conferences & events and occasionally set up play time while on the road. To see where I will be and how to meet me if I come to your area, please check my Travel & Event page.