I am a professional dominant (pro dom), sacred intimate, BDSM / sacred sexuality educator & kink friendly life coach / mentor based in New York's Hudson Valley.

I have been in the NY scene & BDSM lifestyle for over 12 years as a "switch", which for me means that I at least occasionally enjoy both spectrums of the power exchange dynamic as well as both ends of the whip.

As a submissive & slave, I have served many amazing dominants and have learned much about how it feels to truly offer yourself to someone, and how wonderful it feels to know that your offering is deeply cherished.

I use what I have learned as a submissive, as well as my experience with Tantra work, Sacred Intimacy and many years of attending & teaching BDSM classes and workshops that have helped me to hone my topping skills as I developed my own very unique style of domination.

As a Mistress, I love finding out what makes a submissive truly tick and then using that knowledge to create a wonderful experience that meets both of our needs.

To find out more about me, how & why I do what I do and so much more, please feel free to explore this site as well as some of my other specialty sites. This is my main web site and it is quite extensive. You can navigate it by using the menu at the left or you may prefer to use this Site Map Page.

Some of my other websites include:

www.NurseNasty.net for My medical fetish fans
www.ShibariLover.com for the rope & bondage fetish folks
www.SMCoaching.com My life coaching site

So what's the latest news Suze??

Phone Domination Sessions Thru Nite Flirt!

Due to popular request I have signed on to do phone consultations through Nite Flirt!! If you have never used Nite Flirt before your first three minutes are FREE! Must be 18+. For more info on my phone sessions click here.

My Fetish Pics & Videos are now on sale thru NiteFlirt!

One of the other great things about having a NiteFlirt account is that it will allow you to purchase and then instantly download my hot live action Fetish Videos or choose sets of photos from my vast archive of several 100 galleries.

Other Travel News:

I am taking some time off from the hectic travel schedule that I had been keeping. 2007 & 2008 were amazingly busy years for me because I spent quite a lot of time travelling to quite a few major events and conferences around the country teaching classes and to be honest, I got a little burnt out from it and I have decided to take a bit of a rest and recoup my energies.

My next few trips away from home will be, New Hampshire in April & Chicago in May.

I am open to doing private sessions in Chicago the week of Memorial day weekend. For more info check my Travel & Event Page or drop me a note at Mistress@SxySadist.com

NYC Sessions!

Yes, you read that right! I have become great friends with the beautiful, and talented Miss Troy Orleans and she and I have been giving some thought to playing together doing double sessions! She has also generously offered to let me use her fabulous space in mid town Manhattan any time I am in the city! So if you are in or will be passing through NYC and would like to book either a session with me alone or a double session with Troy and I drop me a note!

Life Coaching:

Last year I completed the core curriculum in professional Life Coaching with The Coaches Training Institute and I am extremely excited about this work and love the idea of helping people to lead more fulfilling and rewarding lives. For more information click here: Personal Life Coach

My Space, Facebook, Fetlife & Podcasts

My Own My Space Page!

Ok so at some point recently it dawned on me that I was probably the only human in the civilized world with out a My Space profile. So not one to be left in the dust for long (Ok so maybe not longer than a few years anyway) I finally decided to remedy that and although it is still very much a work in progress, I think it is pretty hot looking over all. Take a peek: Suzanne SxySadist's My Space

SELF Pod Cast

My dear friend Lady Catherine Gross and I did a phone interview a few months back that is now appearing in pod cast format. In this 32 minute mpeg we talk about two classes I did for South East Leather Fest June 8 -10 in Atlanta GA: Binding the Jewels and Torture Ties. Click here to listen : Direct MP3 download