Greetings & Welcome to My Realm!
I am Mistress Suzanne SxySadist
I am a professional dominant (pro dom), sacred
intimate, BDSM / sacred sexuality educator & kink friendly
life coach / mentor based in Northwestern Connecticut (NWCT).
have been in the NY scene & BDSM lifestyle for over 12
years as a "switch", which for me means that I at
least occasionally enjoy both spectrums of the power exchange
dynamic as well as both ends of the whip.
As a submissive & slave, I have served many
amazing dominants and have learned much about how it feels
to truly offer yourself to someone, and how wonderful it feels
to know that your offering is deeply cherished.
I use what I have learned as a submissive, as
well as my experience with Tantra work, Sacred Intimacy and
many years of attending & teaching BDSM classes and workshops
that have helped me to hone my topping skills as I developed
my own very unique style of sensual sadism and domination.
As a Mistress, I love finding out what makes
a submissive truly tick and then using that knowledge to create
a wonderful experience that meets both of our needs. I am
definitely a sensual sadist, I love pushing people to the
edge of their endurance with both pain and pleasure and I
relish those moments when someone is willing to go just a
little further than they thought they wanted to just because
they know it is "getting me off".
To find out more about me, how & why I do
what I do and so much more, please feel free to explore this
site as well as some of my other specialty sites. This is
my main web site and it is quite extensive. You can navigate
it by using the menu at the left or you may prefer to use
this Site Map Page.
So what's the latest news Suze??
My Latest Travel Schedule:
I have been taking some time off from the hectic
travel & teaching schedule that I had been keeping but
I presented at Beyond Leather April 4 - 7, 2013 in Fort Lauderdale, Florida!
I am also tentatively committed to attend and/or present at the following:
Paradise Unbound Seattle WA Aug 6th - 11th
I will be overseas enjoying personal travel at least Sept 9th - 19th
Bound in Boston Boston MA Oct 11th - 13th
Edmonton, Canada Oct 18th - 20th
My classes are: Giving Good Head (and Face Bondage), Adaptable Bondage, and The Joys of Flying "Low"
Deep Mind Dark Wood Somewhere in the wilds of MA Nov 15th - 17th
For more info check my Travel
& Event Page or drop me a note at Mistress@SxySadist.com
Live on WPLR FM 99.1 and WEFX FM 95.9 "The Fox"!
Listen in Tuesday morning, February 19th, when I chat with Chaz and AJ on Ask a... Dominatrix!
If you missed the live broadcast, you can check out my blog entry on the subject here.
My Fetish Pics & Videos are now on sale thru NiteFlirt!
One of the other great things
about having a NiteFlirt account is that it will allow you
to purchase and then instantly download my hot live action
Fetish Videos or choose sets
of photos from my vast archive of several 100 galleries.
Check them out!
BDSM Spa Sessions Specials
I have recently been very much enjoying doing a combination
of sensual massage, body work and BDSM for some of my clients.
To read more about what these sessions can
entail click here: BDSM Spa Sessions
Merry F*&king Christmas!
have a totally HOT new sex toy on the way: The ShockSpot!!
I have wanted this baby ever since I first saw it at Folsom
Street Fair about 3 years ago and my favorite Santa is helping
to put this baby under my tree this Christmas!
I can hardly wait until it arrives and I get to thoroughly
test drive it on a few of my favorite ass sluts! I am accepting
applicationg starting right after the new year!
What is the ShockSpot Fucking Machine? It is the
most advanced, robotic fucking system on the market today.
The Shockspot offers complete control of the stroke length,
speed, smoothness and pattern at the touch of a button.
You have the option of selecting pre-programmed routines
or creating your own using our intuitive point and click
programming page. Flexibility, compactness and quality define
the Shockspot. When stored, this pleasure system fits into
a case not much larger than a standard briefcase. When expanded,
the Shockspot will accommodate any desired position from
lying, kneeling, seated to a full standing position in less
than fifteen seconds. Designed from super-rigid materials,
the system is light enough to be carried effortlessly yet
solid enough to remain in your desired position when in
use. Visit Shockspot.net
for more information.
A good friend and fave playmate brought his
camera along on a playdate last week and we did a couple dozen
shots in the new space that I threw into a photo gallery for
you. Enjoy! Catsuit
My Brand New Dungeon!!
After several months of back (and nail) breaking hard work
my brand new 1200 sq foot multi room facility is ready to
play in and I have just uploaded a dozen or so pics of Sneak
Peek photos for you to check out!
Please do step into my new domain and
take a look around: New
A Ton of New Photos
I decided it was time I updated the website
and I needed some new pics to do that, so I just finished
a shoot with a fabulous photographer named Henry Porter. I
added a couple of them to this page but I also created a new
New HP Photo Gallery! Let me know what you think of the
new pics by dropping me a note!
Phone Domination Sessions Thru Nite Flirt!
Due to popular request I have signed on to do phone consultations
through Nite Flirt!! If you have never used Nite Flirt before
your first three minutes are FREE! Must be 18+. For more info
on my phone sessions click below.
Twitter, My Space, Facebook, & Fetlife Profiles
Ok so at some point not long ago it dawned
on me that I was probably the only human in the civilized
world with out a My Space profile. So not one to be left in
the dust for long (Ok so maybe not longer than a few years
anyway) I finally decided to remedy that and although it is
still very much a work in progress, I think it is pretty hot
looking over all.
Take a peek: Suzanne
SxySadist's My Space
You can also follow me on Twitter here: twitter.com/SuzanneSxySadis
Or find me on Facebook here: facebook.com/MistressSuzanne
Fetlife is the kinky person's
answer to social networking. I am there as well as Suzanne
Last year I completed the core curriculum in
professional Life Coaching with The
Coaches Training Institute and I am extremely excited
about this work and love the idea of helping people to lead
more fulfilling and rewarding
lives. For more information click here: Personal
Some of my other websites include:
for My medical fetish fans
for the rope & bondage fetish folks
My life coaching site