My BDSM Instruction
When I first came into the lifestyle I was
fortunate to meet many people that mentored me and taught
me about many things. I still have an insatiable thirst
to learn all I can about the BDSM lifestyle and all that
it encompasses and love attending conferences that have
classes, lectures & demos on various subjects.
Along the way I have learned and experienced
a great deal and one of my favorite ways to "give back"
to my community is to share that knowledge with other community
members and interested parties.
I am available on both a private and public
level and would be delighted to discuss your individual
or group needs with you. Just drop me a note at Mistress@SxySadist.com
and let's discuss it.
Personalized Instruction for individuals & couples-
I very much enjoy working individually one
on one and with bonded couples that seek personalized guidance
& coaching to meet their specific needs & desires.
Obviously, with a couple that can very easilly
be accomplished as I give dominanttraining to one partner
while the other partner receives from them.
I will also occasionally consider bottoming
professionally for the pupose of helping a new dominant
to develop his or her topping skills. These sessions must
be heavilly negotiated and many restrictions apply.
- Why seek professional training?
Perhaps you are brand new to or even just
curious about the scene and not sure where to begin. Or
perhaps you have recently discovered that your partner has
kinky fantasies or desires and wish to understand or explore
them in a safe, nurturing yet professional environment.
By engaging a skilled & knowledgable professional
you will receive quality and trustworthy training from someone
that really knows what they are doing. I am not just some
bit of "eye candy with a whip". I have been living
this lifestyle personally, for over 10 years and BDSM is
not just what I "do" it is truly a large part
of what makes me who I am.
- Some of the things you may want guidance
in initially are:
Understanding your or your partners fetish
Realizing that you are not alone and there
are others that share your desires & needs as well as
your fears & concerns
Basic BDSM safety and instruction in things
like bondage, flogging and much more
Learning to negotiate / communicate to meet
both parties needs.
- As you move further into the lifestyle
you may wish to learn about:
Shopping for Toys on any budget
How to meet other lifestyle couples &
Further instruction and training on specific
Dealing with boredom and / or burn out in
Group Presentations, classes, workshops &
If you represent a lifestyle group...
and wish to arrange a class for them, you
may be interested to know that I have presented for many
groups & events such as:
Dom sub Friends / Long Island Leather &
Roses / The Albany Power eXchange / Partyman's Summer Bash
/ The Sensational Play Party of the Hudson Valley / TES
/ The Boston Dungeon Society (now NEDS) / Western Mass Power
Exchange / The Society of CT / Thunder in the Mountains /
C.O.P.E. / Dark Odyssey Leather Retreat / Black Rose & Shibaricon
If you would like to discuss...
having me come to your area to do a class
drop me a note at Mistress@SxySadist.com
Also be sure to check out:
Upcoming Class Schedule
Class / Workshop