Hello there!
Thank you for checking out my newsletter!
For those of you that may have been directed here recently,
please check the travel and events section as I have added
a bunch of events and such to it as my spring and summer
is shaping up.
For those of you that are coming here for
the very first time, Welcome! I hope you find some information
of interest here. My web site has been recently expanded
and updated in several areas to reflect my latest activities
and ever evolving interests.
I have a ton of stuff to fill you in on
so to help you select only areas that interest you, please
feel free to choose items from this menu:
Topics in this newsletter:
Why I do what I do
Service Additions
Upcoming Travel, Events
& Classes
(Upstate NY, Long Island, Chicago, Hartford & DC planned)
New DVDs & Videos on
Sale!
Session Promotion
Live In Slave / Room mate
Why I do what I do
Recently I was trying to explain in brief
to a mostly “vanilla” audience, what it is
that I do and why I do it, and I thought some of you might
find this interesting or enlightening. Those of you that
already know me well will hopefully not find this at all
surprising. 
I am a professional
dominant, sacred intimate and BDSM lifestyle educator.
I consider myself a service provider with a healing
intention. I am really passionate about what I do
and feel that working with people in this way is how
I share my gifts and my love with the world. As the
dominant, I do assume a more masculine or leading
role since in that moment it is my mission, my joy
and my purpose to discover & intuit what I most
need to do moment by moment, to open up the person
before me to the best degree that I am able, within
their emotional, spiritual & physical boundaries
as well as within my own.
There have been times
when I have truly known what it is like to have touched
someone in ways that they will never forget or that
will change their lives for the better. I cannot truly
describe in words, how wonderful that makes me feel.
I feel like what I do with my life is truly worthwhile
because I share my love with others and make the world
a slightly better place. Even if some days my best
efforts just allow someone else a bit of respite from
the pressures of their daily lives, I am really happy
to do it because my greatest joy and pleasure often
comes from serving and making others happy. That is
what I do and why and it gives me great joy to be
as good at it as I am.
I also recently added an essay to my web
site that talks about many of the fascinating dynamics
that are at play in a Ds relationship or scene. It can
be found here World
of BDSM. I would welcome any comments on it.
Service Additions
-
I also recently decided to update my main
site to include services other than profession domination
that I have been offering recently. Specifically I have
added sections and information in the following areas:
Sacred Intimacy -
A Sacred Intimate is a professional that
uses whatever life experience, and training they have
at their disposal to work erotically and energetically
with those seeking connection, healing, guidance or transformation
in their erotic and spiritual lives. This work can include
anything from a simple but heart felt and intentional
hug, to a Taoist erotic massage, or role play, bondage
and sacred SM play or any number of other things that
will meet the needs of the client while not crossing the
professional & personal boundaries of the SI.
I feel that what truly sets a sacred intimate
apart from other sex workers is their heart felt intention
to help and to heal others, and their deep desire to share
love in it's purest and most unconditional form. It is
not just about sex and lust or “getting off”,
(not that there is anything wrong with sex or lust or
"getting off"), but Sacred Intimate work for
me is about healing and reclaiming, rejoicing and celebrating
the beautiful erotic spirit with in each of us.
For more information on what Sacred Intimacy
Sessions are about click here: “What
is Sacred Intimacy?” or here: “My
SI Offerings”
Masturbation Coaching
I have decided that it is time that I get
more serious about sharing some of the wonderful things
I have learned about male orgasmic response over the years
in the form of Masturbation coaching. Do you realize that
it is possible to have an orgasm (in fact maybe even several
of them) without actually ejaculating? Wouldn't it be
nice to be able to cum over and over again and enjoy multiple
orgasms, like a woman, without having to wait for the
refractory period to pass so that you can revive your
spent penis? Well you can! Some of these assignments may
seem pointless at first and others may not be easy for
you to do by yourself initially and but trust me “grasshopper”
I have a plan and a method to my madness, and in this
series of lessons I intend to reveal to you the secret
to controlling your orgasms and reaching heights you may
have never imagined.
Testimonial from a formally skeptical but
now very happy camper: “The "exercises"
that you gave me seemed to have invigorated my libido
and my ability to maintain an erection. What's even more
interesting is that on occasion, I get an erection just
for the hell of it again like when I was younger! I feel
that our interaction has contributed to my recovery from
depression. I'm off my meds, have lost 20 lbs and have,
in general, a more positive outlook on life! Thank you
Suzanne!”
Special Newsletter ONLY Promotion! I believe
so strongly in helping you discover the joys of full body
orgasms that I am willing to take 1/3 off this program
if you order any 2 videos from the New School of Erotic
Touch. (see below for a sample of DVD
titles - (I suggest Fire on the Mountain for guys
and Best of Vulva for the lady in your life)
Click here to learn more about this program:
Masturbation
Coaching or email me directly for more information:
Mistress@SxySadist.com
Sensual Massage & Body Work
In 2005 I attended two separate two week
long intensive massage training programs offered by the
Body Electric School (www.bodyelectric.org) of Oakland
CA. The first was offered in March and was a full 100
hour certified massage therapist (CMT) program which I
completed and proudly display the certificate to prove
it. The second course was an addition 100 hrs of specific
Deep Tissue teaching offered in Nov. The incomparable
Chester Mainard was my teacher for both of these wonderful
courses and I consider myself very lucky to have been
able to have learned to touch people from this gifted
healer.
This is not your typical clinical massage. His teaching
focused on intentional and heartfelt presence as well
as connecting deeply and spiritually with the whole person,
rather than just rubbing body parts. Although I admit
that I am not licensed to charge professionally for massage
in the NYS, I very much enjoy helping people feel truly
at home and alive in their bodies by helping them to keep
the focus on their own experiences and sensations while
giving them a slow sensual full body massage.
BDSM Education & Instruction
When I first came into the lifestyle I was
fortunate to meet many people that mentored me and taught
me about many things. I still have an insatiable thirst
to learn all I can about the BDSM lifestyle and all that
it encompasses and love attending conferences that have
classes, lectures & demos on various subjects.
Along the way I have learned and experienced
a great deal and one of my favorite ways to "give
back" to my community is to share that knowledge
with other community members and interested parties. It
is always an honor for me to be asked to present classes
for different groups and organizations and I like to think
that is speaks well of my skills, reputation and credibility.
For information on some of my upcoming classes see Travel,
Events & Classes or check my web site for class
offerings and descriptions.
Professional
Submissive Services
I have had more than a couple new dominants
tell me that one of the classic catch 22’s in life
is that is can be difficult to gain experience at something
when no one is willing to play with you until you have
experience. Umm yeah, that can definitely be a problem!
I also understand how daunting it can be to be trying
to develop a new skill with your submissive watching ever
move you make, although I believe that is why blindfolds
may have been invented in the first place. J Sometimes
it is just far better to learn a skill from a professional
and then when you develop confidence with practice go
and try it at home.
As a switch I am very familiar with and
comfortable on both ends of the whip and I have discovered
that it can be very helpful to learn new topping skills
by working with a submissive that is more experienced
in that particular area. My skills and areas of expertise
are quite varied and I very much enjoy helping new dominants
to gain experience in general as well as facilitating
experienced dominants to gain new skills.
Obviously these scenes need to be negotiated
ahead of time because there are many things that are not
permitted in a professional session that you can of course
do to your own submissives in private, but I am sure that
there are multiple creative approaches that we can take
to help you gain the knowledge & experience you seek.
For more information on this service please click here
Professional
Submissive
Couples Training & Sessions
Another area of keen interest to me is in
the realm of couple’s work. I find it wonderfully
rewarding to be able to work with couples and help them
to explore new things together and have often enjoyed
watching relationships strengthen as a result. I have
been absolutely delighted to have been contacted by more
and more couples over the last few years and am proud
of the amount of experience I have gained in this area.
I know that there are probably quite a few
men reading this site that have wives that are aware of
but do not share your interest in “kink” in
general and probably many more who are afraid to even
broach the subject with their spouses to find out what
their reaction might be. But for those select few of you
that would like a gentle way of introducing your significant
other to the topic of Female Domination, I would like
to share a link with you that a dear friend of mine recently
sent me. Caring
Domination
Travel, Events &
Classes
Travel Session opportunities:
March 3 & 10 & May 12 (so far more
will be added) - Paddles NYC
This Friday and next I will be at Paddles
in NYC attending the DSF (DomsubFriends) meetings and
most likely staying to play afterwards. If you are in
the area and want to stop in to say hello please do. You
may even inquire about booking a public scene with me
at the club either of these nights or at a future date.
Paddles is located at 256 W 26th Street
between 7 & 8th. More info can be found by visiting
their web site at www.PaddlesNYC.com
Mar 16 - 18 - Upstate NY - La Domaine Esemsar
Master R has invited me back to La
Domaine to spend a few days enjoying his gracious
hospitality and I will have full use of his fabulous dungeon
facilities Thursday March 16 - Saturday March 18.
La
Domaine (www.ladomaineesemar.com) is located about
30 mins from Albany in the foothills of the Berkshires.
It is really beautiful countryside and deliciously secluded
for kind of activities we most enjoy. <wink> If
interested in visiting me during this time frame then
drop me a note and let’s set it up.
If you can't make it for these dates, don't
despair, I am generally up there for 2 days or more every
other week or so. If you would like to be kept informed
of upcoming trips to La Domaine drop me an email by clicking
here: La
Domaine Visits
Mar 23 - 26 & April 18 - 20 - Long
Island NY??
I am considering coming down to Long Island
a couple of times to visit family, friends, and get in
some play time. If there is enough interest in these,
I will set them in stone and either way I do plan to start
making more trips to the island soon. (I especially love
the island in the summer time - Lighthouse Beach anyone?
I also have a fairly new friend with a cute
little dungeon out in Rocky Point and I am also open to
booking "motel scenes" in western suffolk. I
do require deposits for all "away" sessions
so if you are interested and for real .. drop me a note:
Long
Island Session.
May 25 – 29 - Chicago IL
I am heading back for my third attendance
of Shibaricon! I have a few people in Chicago that I have
seen professionally and I am always open to meeting others.
If you are in this area and would like to get together
with me for some professional play time drop me a note
by clicking here: Chicago
Session
July 20 - 23 or so - Washington DC area
Since I will be in town for the Master/slave
conference, it will be a great opportunity for me
to play with some of my clients and friends in the area.
If you are in the DC area and want to get together drop
me a note DC
Session
Events I am attending
Apr 21 – 23 - NYC Women's Celebrating
the Body Erotic
I will be assisting once again during the
Body Electric Women's CBE this spring. Please feel free
to pass this info on to ladies you feel may be interested.
For more info on this wonderfully trans formative weekend
click here 
July 14 – 16 - Summer Bash
This is a wonderful event sponsored by the
great folks at the Albany Power Exchange. For more info
visit their web
site
July 21 – 23 - Master/slave Conference
Washington DC!
I am REALLY looking forward to attending
this one with my dear friend and mentor "Leather
Dave" and plan to head down a day or two early to
do some sessions in the area.
Classes I am teaching:
Apr 18 - Rope & Shibari Bondage 101
for LILNR
My old home group on Long Island has invited
me back down to teach one of my favorite workshops. Class
starts at 8:30p. Write to sub_giggle@yahoo.com
for more information.
May 12 & 13 Classes for my Friends
at DomsubFriends
The friday night will be either a rope suspension
demo or advanced needle play.
But the Saturday class will be an extended
rope bondage class.. details to be announced soon.
May
25 – 29 - Shibaricon III Chicago IL
This time they have me teaching 3 classes
again: Bondage 101, CBT w/ Rope & my Intention, Connection
& Breath class.
For more info about this fabulous event
for rope lovers of all skill levels, check out their web
site Shibaricon
June 17th - Gathering of the Tribes CT
I don't have a lot of info on this one yet,
but I have been tentatively asked to teach a class at
this event and as I get more info I will add it to the
calendar of events.
DVDs & Videos for
Sale!
Erotic Massage DVD offerings!
I have teamed up with my friends at the
New School of Erotic Touch to bring you some really great
erotic massage teaching programs. Those of you that know
me, know that I am always raving about the wonderful things
I have learned from the Body Electric School. I have personally
been studying Taoist Erotic Massage with them for over
7 years and much of what I have learned through them is
now available on DVD.
These educational and entertaining videos
were created by Joe Kramer, the founder of Body Electric
School, to allow you to enjoy these teachings from the
comfort and privacy of your home. I personally own every
one of these titles and have watched them many times &
have even loaned them to friends. Whether you area man
or woman or couple looking to expand your self pleasuring
repertoire or wishing to learn new skills to pleasure
your partner or others with, these video classes can help.
For more info click here New
School DVDs!
All My videos on sale!
For those of you that didn't notice, I had
yanked my videos down from the site for a few months when
the 2257 compliance stuff hit the fan, but have since
realized that I was probably over reacting. Hell, the
only person in my videos besides me is my slave richie
and since he is my personal slave I could readily cough
up ID info if I had to with some encouragement. 
So no worries for me there!
Anyway, long story short.. my video offerings
are back up and I have decided to throw the whole lot
of them on sale for 1/3 off! So basically they are 20
bucks each (excluding Hat Game & Delano Vac Bed DVD)
Or buy 2 get 1 free! Woohoo! Such a deal! 
Click here to browse the titles: Suzanne’s
Videos
General Boutique Update
While I was busy doing refresh work on the
site I did an over haul on the Boutique page and updated
it to <hopefully> make it easier for you to navigate.
Pretty much the same stuff: panties, stockings etc but
feel free to take a peek. Suzanne’s
Boutique
Private Session Promotion
So the winter blues and blahs are definitely
here and although this winter has been fairly mild for
the most part it is still seems that people need to be
encouraged to get out and play when it is cold outside.
This time rather than offer a specific promotion or deal
on play time I have decided to let those of you who would
like to visit but need to maybe negotiate a bit, do so.
Things tend to be a bit quieter for me over
the winter so I often have a bit more time on my hands
and can afford to consider cutting deals here and there.
This offer only applies to my home facilities of course
because I have far less room to play at places where I
incur travel expense AND pay dungeon rental fees.
Drop me a note and tell me what would work
for you and if it is a reasonable offer and I have space
in my schedule, I will consider it. Write to me with your
offer by clicking here: Winter
Warm Up
Live In Slave / Room
mate
That's right! I am seeking a live in slave
to tend to my personal needs. Light housekeeping and yard
work will be part of your service as well as other more
personal duties. You will be expected to maintain a good
job (work outside the home preferred but not required).
And you are of course expected to share in the rent and
household expenses.
Age Race Gender and religion not important,
Dedication to the leather lifestyle is! Please send a
courteous letter of introduction with your previous experience.
Dedicated novices to the lifestyle will be considered
for a personal interview also. Serious only inquire. Email
me here: Live
in slave position
Well, that about covers it for the time
being .. I hope that life is treating you well and I look
forward to seeing you soon!
Sincerely,
Suzanne SxySadist
"Sensual Sadism is an Artform... the body
is my canvas"
