Mistress Suzanne AKA SxySadist

"Sensual sadism is an Artform... your body & soul is My canvas!"

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Questionnare I use this constantly evolving & very comprehensive form to plan our session & to decide if I wish to meet with you.

Please take your time & answer all the questions to the best of your ability. I realize it is quite long but I find this information valuable in planning a mutually enjoyable scene.

To make the task more enjoyable, I invite you to close your eyes for a moment & imagine my voice whispering into your ear.

I am asking you each question that follows, probing & demanding the information I want so I may discover all of your secret thoughts, fantasies & desires.

I will then lay you bare before me, as I use this info to seduce you into serving me in ways that will bring us both great pleasure. Our first session is about to begin. will you make it a good one?

If you have trouble with this electronic form email me at Mistress@SxySadist.com.

Mobile phone users may use this link for the mobile web version of this form.

PLEASE NOTE: Do NOT hit Enter until you are ready to send! Use the Tab key!

Part 1 General Information

What is your email address? ex: Mistress@SxySadist.com <mandatory>

What is your first name?

Where are you from? (city/state)

If not from the area, when do you plan to visit Northwest Connecticut? (approx date)

Phone/Pager (if pos.):

Your Age:

Gender:

Marital Status:

Sexual Orientation:

Health related issues I need to be aware of that may impact our session: (please list past or recent chronic conditions, injuries, disabilities or phobias) Also list any especially sensitive areas:

Please inform me of any emotional issues that you feel may cause a potential trigger or bad reaction: (rape, incest, child abuse, race concerns) or anything that I should be aware of that is a potential problem for you in a scene emotionally.

I am occasionally willing to barter for services. What special skills or services do you have to offer?

Part 2 Scene Basics:

Your preferred power position:

Describe your SM experience thus far if any:

If experienced how many years in the scene, or how long interested in it?

Can you provide a reference? (Someone active in the lifestyle, a Pro Domme,
or other scene related individual) If so, who?

What, if any, marks are acceptable to you & for how long?
(Please note: Some BDSM activities have the potential to leave temporary marks such as light bruises, welts, or imprints like rope marks on the body. Although I am very good at what I do and rarely leave marks on people that do NOT wish them, I cannot absolutely guarantee whether you will get a mark or not or how long a mark will last.)

What do you feel is the most important element in a BDSM scene?

Which choice best describes your interest?

Are there any particular areas you feel you would like to challenge explore? What activity is highest on your "wishlist"?

Please briefly describe what you envision for a first scene with me. I want at least a few sentences in this field or don't bother continuing.

Do you wish to explore service in your submission? If so what kind and how deeply?

What you picture the Mistress wearing.. (be careful, this is a set up question! I don't promise to wear what you ask for and I turn away a lot of people based on inappropriate answers here!)

This section gives me deeper insight into what makes you tick & turns you on. Please describe at least 3 qualities that you envision when you think of your ideal dominant or submissive.

Part 3 Activities

Now we get to see what things you want to experience in a session with me. Please check off any items below that interest you.

Do you have any particular fetish desires?
Body Hair
Body parts
Denim
Feet
Lace
Latex
Leather
Medical Fetish Play (If this is a strong interest see NurseNasty.net)
Religious (Nun/priest play)
Retifism (shoes or boots)
Rubber
Scents / smell (what kind?)

Other or more detail to above choices:

Age Play:

Diaper Fantasies
Depilation (shaving)
Parent /child fantasies
Student /teacher fantasies
How old would you wish to be?

Want to briefly describe a fantasy scene or share some thoughts?

Anal & Dildo Play:

Dildo
Fingers
Fisting
Forced Oral (on Strap-on)
Rape / Gang Bang fantasies
Strap-on
Vibrator

Want to briefly describe a fantasy scene or share any thoughts?

Asphyxiaphilia & Breath play):

Lightly restrictive Moderate restriction Heavily restrictive

Carotid Pressure
Devices that Restrict (gas mask, hoods, gags etc)
Noose & Hanging Play (strangling and carotid pressure)
Hoods/gags
Re-breathers (bagging or slow O2 deprivation)
Smothering (hand smothering, queening etc)
Suffocation

Want to briefly describe a fantasy scene or share any thoughts?

Bondage:

Lightly restrictive Moderate restriction Heavily restrictive

Body Bag or Sleep Sack
Caging
Chains & Steel Cuffs
Other Steel Restraints (pillory / kneeling or standing stocks etc)
Chastity devices
Cling wrap / tape
Mummification (Cling wrap or bondage tape)
Leather Bonds
Predicament Bondage
Rope Bondage
Straight Jacket
Suspension
Vacuum Bed / Cube

Want to briefly describe a fantasy scene or share any thoughts?

Genital Torture (CBT & Pussy torture):

Light activity Moderate activity Heavy activity

Abrasion
Ball Busting
Genital Bondage
Clamps, clips, clothespins
Pressure
Sounds (Urethral)
Weights

Want to briefly describe a fantasy scene or share any thoughts?

Electro Torture:

Internal PSE Unit
Tens Unit
Violet Wand
Cattle Prod

Want to briefly describe a fantasy scene or share any thoughts?

Feminization / Cross dressing / Transvestism:

Have clothes I can bring (describe)
Have no clothes of my own, hope to borrow some. (I do not promise to fit everyone)
List sizes:
Public shopping trips
Maid service /training
Sissy slut training

Want to briefly describe a fantasy scene or share any thoughts?

Foot & leg worship:

Would like some in the scene, but none main focus
Wants moderate amount in the scene
My main interest in the scene

Altocalciphilia (love of high heels)
Bare feet
Boots
Enjoys kissing, licking feet and legs
Gives a good foot massage
Stocking feet
Pantyhose
Trampling
Wish to learn to give a pedicure

Want to briefly describe a fantasy scene or share any thoughts?

Heat & Fire Play:

Alcohol lighting
Branding
Candle wax
Burning incense torture

Want to briefly describe a fantasy scene or share any thoughts?

Humiliation:

Mild level Moderate level Heavy level

Being spit on
Collar & Leash
Crawling
Face slapping
Feminization
Hair Pulling
Kneeling
Public Display
Used as an object (table, foot rest, ashtray etc)
Verbal Degradation

Want to briefly describe a fantasy scene or share any thoughts?

Hypnosis:

My interest is in:

Theraputic Hypnosis (Lose weight, quit smoking, etc.)
Erotic Hypnosis (Guided fantasy, playful mind control, etc.)

Briefly describe a fantasy scene or share any thoughts

Nipple Torture:

Light activity Moderate activity Heavy activity

Abrasion
Breast torture/ nipple bondage
Clamps / Clothespins
Nibbling / Biting
Stretching
Weights

Want to briefly describe a fantasy scene or share any thoughts?

Corporal / Percussion / Impact Play:

Light activity Moderate activity Heavy activity

Spanking
Floggers
Whips (single tails)
Paddles
OTK (over the knee)
Canes
Crops
Other:

Sensations that I enjoy or think that I may enjoy most:
Thuddy/Thumpy Stingy/Sharp Combinations or variety of sensations

Materials I enjoy or think I would enjoy:
Deerskin
Leather
Nylon
Rattan
Rubber
Synthetics
Wood

Corporal play comment or fantasy:

Enforced Chastity:

Short Term (on-site duration of session only)
Longer Term (off-site informal negotiated durations)
Contractual Keyholding (off-site formal contractual durations)
Have my Own Device that I will bring with me
Which Type?

Want to briefly describe fantasy scene or share any thoughts?

Piercing / Suturing/ Cutting:

Acucullophallia (being cut)
Beading (body adornment)
Blood Play
Lacing(wrapping string around the needles for bondage)
Suturing
Temporary Piercing
Have permanent piercings (list)

Want to briefly describe a fantasy scene or share any thoughts?

Role play:

How important is role play to your ideal scene?

Very important Somewhat important Not at all important

What roles are you interested in?
Roles you wish me to play:

Want to briefly describe a fantasy scene or share any thoughts?

Sensation Play:

Cupping (suction of the skin)
Feathers
Fur
Ice
Light /soft flogging
Mild abrasion /scratching
Tickle torture

Want to briefly describe a fantasy scene or share any thoughts?

Sensory Deprivation:

Audio/Video Stimulation
Blindfolds
Ear Plugs/headphones
Gags
Gas Masks
Hoods
Long periods of bondage

Want to briefly describe a fantasy scene or share any thoughts?

Miscellaneous:

24/7 (Total Power Exchange)
Algolagnia (love of pain)
Autoerotica (masturbation)
Dacryphilia (arousal from tears)
Exhibitionism
Other:

Want to briefly describe a fantasy scene or share some thoughts?

Part 4 Final Section

Referral and Web site commentary: How did you hear about me? Where did you find my web link etc? (Domme board, banner link other?)

Any comments or suggestions about the web site? Ease of navigation, ambiance, loading speed, picture quality etc?

Please read this last bit and initial the bottom.
"I understand that the answers to this questionnaire are to be used only to plan a consentual BDSM session. My limits will be respected and I may stop the scene at any time I wish. I understand that the Mistress is a skilled professional and that care and caution is taken to insure my safety, but I acknowledge that there is inherent risk to BDSM play. I further understand that there will be NO sex of any kind, NO illegal activities permitted, and NO nudity on the part of the Mistress."
Initials:

Finally, did thinking about and picturing all of these things while filling out the form excite you just a little? (Any last words?)

OK great and thank you for your efforts! Once you hit "Submit the completed form will be emailed to me at Mistress@SxySadist.com.
I should respond to you within 48 hours with more information or further instructions. If however I do not it may mean I am away for a few days. I answer all email that I receive one way or the other. If you do not hear from me within 72 hours you may wish to send a follow up email in case your email was lost in cyber space.

Best Wishes!! SxySadist

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