My
Domination Services
Overview
Live Training Sessions
Distance Training
Key Holder Services
Financial Domination
Masturbation Coaching!
Overview of My Services
I offer a variety of domination training services
to fit practically every submissive desire & budget.
Rest assured that no matter which type of training you seek
I will approach it with the same determination and desire
to see that both your submissive needs and my wicked dominant
desires are met.
My preference, by far, is for live, in-person
training sessions. There is no substitute for laying my
hands (and implements) on bare flesh.
That said, I also offer domination by phone,
online chat, web cam, and email training for those interested
in my services but too far away to see me in person. These
approaches can be a very effective way to maintain connection
and "continuity of training" between in-person
sessions. This medium has opened up a world of possibility
in terms of financial / "blackmail" domination
and one of my favorites - "key holder services"
(for those desiring to wear my chastity devices).
I offer training for individuals, couples
& small groups. Naturally, the tribute amount varies
depending on which type of service you seek and the duration
of the session. I also have trained other dominants seeking
to improve their skills or add new ones to their repertoire.
I dislike having my valuable time wasted by
people that have no real interest in the scene or folks
that "just want to get-off". BDSM for me is not
just about "kinky sex" If that is what you seek
then please do not contact me.
Lastly, please realize that I am a professional
with a tremendous amount of equipment & experience and
expect to be compensated accordingly. The list below details
the services I offer with appropriate tribute & contact
information.
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Live Sessions with Mistress Suzanne
"SxySadist"
My favorite way to play! There is nothing
like running your nails over someone's flesh, watching the
look in their eyes as they squirm and hearing them moan
as they submit to your / their desires. Whew.. great stuff!
I very much enjoy playing and I am told it clearly shows
how much fun I am having.
I can be very gentle and go ever so slowly
when someone is nervous and or new. I can also be as extreme
as an experienced or hardcore masochist could possibly need or desire if your experience
level and pain threshold allows for it.
I do live sessions in a private home in Northwestern Connecticut
that features four fully equipped play areas. These are
strictly professional sessions. Please read my list of "No
No's" BEFORE contacting me! If you ask for any
of the items on that list you will be ignored. Period!
My tuition for slave training, private sessions or lessons is about average for a NY/CT area Dominatrix. I do discuss discounts for extended & overnight sessions. If you are interested in scheduling an appointment
to meet with me please go to the contact
page and follow the instructions there. Once I reply
to your application we can set an
appointment date and time.
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Distance Training
There are so many absolutely wonderful submissives
that unfortunately do not live close enough to the CT area
to make visiting me a possibility. Others have extenuating
circumstances or are just afraid to take that leap to live
sessions. Some of my regular clients also enjoy these options
as a way of staying in touch with me between sessions or
to continue their training in a particular arena.
Phone Sessions
I offer several varieties of phone consultations these days:
Fantasy & Fetish Role Play Sessions
For those of you that cannot serve in person but that still enjoy interacting with a real live Mistress.
We can discuss your fantasies and I can make you blush or have you prove your devotion by obeying my commands over the phone.
BDSM & Kink Education
I am a highly experienced kink educator and I travel the country every month teaching sexy fun BDSM classes to kinksters and lifestyle couples at private parties, conferences and even national events!
I have vast realms of experience and knowledge in a wide array of kinky topics as well as more than a passing exposure to Tantra and Taoist sacred sexual healing arts especially those involving control of male erotic massage and ejaculatory control. For a list of my other qualifications and resume' click here: Class Schedule.
Coaching & Mentoring
Want advice on how to introduce your "vanilla" partner to a little bit of kink with out freaking them out? Want tips on how to meet others in the lifestyle? Need advise on places to shop for fetish gear and toys? Want insight on what it is like to go to a munch, play party or national conference?
It can be a bit scary and overwhelming for those who are new to the lifestyle to find their way around initially and it can help tremendously to have an experienced guide "show you the ropes" so to speak.
I can provide advise and insight into a great many aspects of this amazing lifestyle and also help you put some of the confusing terminology and so much more into perspective. Just give me a call and tell me what you most need and we can take it from there.
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Online-Chat Sessions
I used to do a lot of cyber many years ago, but gave it up when I started doing RT sessions. Cyber just didn't compare, but I was pretty good at it. However, I still find there are a fair number of slaves that cannot meet in person or who cannot do phone consults that still desire a way to get a sense for what this lifestyle can feel like, so I also offer chat sessions and consultations.
Cyber consultations are available in 15 minute blocks for $30.00 each - there is a discount for multiple bookings. To begin your cyber submissive training you may order your first session by clicking the link below, then send me a polite email at Mistress@SxySadist.com with Cyber Session in the subject line detailing your areas of greatest interest.
E-mail & Postal Training
I maintain training with several of my favorite
subbies through email & find it to be a delicious way
yo keep the energy exchange going between sessions. I send
them written and physical assignments that they must complete
& then they are required to report back to me on how
they did & how it made them feel.
If this type of training appeals to you then
I invite you to prepay for a week's training session below
& then drop a polite email to me at Mistress@SxySadist.com
with Email Training in the subject line. Tell me a bit about
yourself and what sort of experience you are seeking. I
will get back to you ASAP. Postal Training: This same service
can be accomplished via US mail if you would prefer. Send
polite email as above to me and request my PO Box number.
Email testimonial: "First, let me say
the week I was under Your control was both fun and exciting.
Being under Your control; controlling when I was able to
cum was frustrating and at the same time extremely erotic.
If at all possible in the near future, I would like to come
for a live session. But until then, Thank You again
for Your training."
1 week Email or Postal Training session $50.00
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Key Holder Services - Enforced
Chastity
Let me hold the key to your manhood! Perhaps
the ultimate form of surrender, how would you like to give
up all control of your sexual release and wear a chastity
device for a contracted period of time? There are many such
devices, ranging from the simple but effective CB2000 to
custom-fitted devices made by my friends at Access Denied.
I even have a rare Kali's Teeth Bracelet (KTB) - quite probably
the most sadistic male chastity device made.
Be forewarned though, take care in deciding
what period of time you contractually commit to me, because
I will not waiver in my determination to help you achieve
your goal! (laughing wickedly). Early release may be possible
(if not specifically excluded via contract) but all early
terminations are subject to a financial penalty negotiated
PRIOR to you being locked up. If you do not live in close
proximity to me, I can work with you to arrange to have
a fellow Domme in your area hold a spare key in case of
emergencies. (Don't worry, she'll be no easier to sway than
I in helping to ensure you achieve your goal!) And don't
let business travel or a fear of metal detectors keep you
from surrendering. I can help you to be fitted with a device
perfect for your (and my) needs.
NOTE: I am contacted constantly for this service
so I require a tribute up front to demonstrate your sincerity.
There are several payment option available. More info can
be found by clicking the link below.
Once your deposit has been sent, send your
inquiry to me at: Mistress@SxySadist.com
and then we will make arrangements to discuss the parameters
of your service contract.
Key holder sincerity deposit $50.00
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Financial Domination & Money
Slaves
Those of you that have a need to be used financially
have also come to the right place. Whether your desire is
born out of a need "give" or a desire to be financially
"raped" or "blackmailed" by which you
are forced (seemingly against your will) to "pay or
suffer the consequences," we can structure a contractual
relationship that meets your needs.
NOTE: I am contacted constantly for this service
so I require a tribute up front to demonstrate your sincerity.
There are several payment option available. More info can
be found by clicking the link below.
Once your deposit is received, I will contact
you to discuss the parameters for further training and appropriate
tributes.
Bronze Money Slave Payment $25.00
Silver Money Slave Payment $50.00
Gold Money Slave Payment $100.00
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Masturbation
Coaching
Intro to Male Orgasm Control – an exploration
of new heights and pleasure potential
Some of my greatest interests and passions
surround the realms of sexual healing and heightening erotic
pleasure. These lessons and assignments are taken from some
of the things that I have learned during my exploration
into Taoist erotic massage and Sacred Sexuality. Yes, I
said sacred which to me means “that which we hold
treasured or holy”. In my mind (and in many tantric
traditions) in is accepted that sexual bliss can bring you
into communion with the “divine.” I strongly
believe that healthy and positive sexual energy is the root
of creation and the vehicle that can bring mere mortals
close enough to touch the face of God (and hey, it just
feels so damn good!) This may sound strange or “out
there” to some but if you practice these exercises
fully, I can assure you that your enjoyment of sex and your
“performance” will improve which will also bring
greater pleasure to your sexual partners.
Do you realize that it is possible to have
an orgasm (in fact maybe even several of them) without actually
ejaculating? Wouldn’t it be nice to be able to cum
over and over again and enjoy multiple orgasms, like a woman,
without having to wait for the refractory period to pass
so that you can revive your spent penis? Well you can! Some
of these assignments may seem pointless at first and others
may not be easy for you to do by yourself initially and
but trust me “grasshopper” I have a plan and
a method to my madness, and in this series of lessons I
intend to reveal to you the secret to controlling your orgasms
and reaching heights you may have never imagined.
Testimonial from a sceptic:
"I have been communicating with Mistress
Suzanne for some time, as well as, being a member of her
web site. I told the Mistress that I was looking for some
on-line discipline. She suggested a tantric exercise program
that she was working on. Not exactly what I was looking
for - BUT. I'd had some erectile dysfuntion problems due
to diabetes and several medications that I was taking, so
I thought what the heck.
My first week's assignment was a series of
penile exercises that I was required to do - basically tightening
and releasing the muscles in my genital area. It seemed
kind of silly but I took it as a challenge for my Mistress.
After doing the exercises several times a day for a few
days, I whined. I was told to continue my "exercises"
and I would be very happy with the results. In the evenings,
I was to work on arousing myself without cumming. This was
alright especially after Mistress suggested that I tie myself
very securely except for my "exercise" hand and
picture her standing there sexily dressed overseeing my
activities.
The next week we added additional daily exercises
and continued working on arousal. I had to take myself up
and down a masturbation scale. When I was about to cum,
I had to stop or slow down my hand speed. Needless to say,
between the arousal created by the bondage and the masturbating,
I had some failures and came - HARD. She said not to worry
and keep practicing - which I did.
After three or four weeks of working up to
squeezing my penile muscles for 30 seconds at a time, Mistress
raised the ante. Now during my masturbation "exercises",
I was to take myself up and down the scale but make myself
orgasm. That sounded great to me. There was a catch, of
course. Once lubed up and ready to cum, I was told that
I had to squeeze my penis muscles and have an orgasm without
ejaculating - like that's going to happen. Okey Dokey, here
we go. I worked myself up and down to different levels of
excitement, getting just to the verge of orgasm, then backing
off. Finally, it was time to take it over the top and then
bang, as I was orgasming I tightened the muscles in my penis(about
10 seconds) - no ejaculation. Interesting! I decided to
try again, knowing that I probably won't be able to get
it up again. I quickly got hard again and back up the scale
I went. A more intense orgasm and again I clamped my muscles
and no ejaculation. By the fifth time, I was seeing stars
when I orgasmed and finally just let it go. I couldn't e-mail
Suz fast enough. WOW!
I was very skeptical that this was a bunch
of bull. This is pretty cool stuff that I highly recommend
to everyone.
Here are my two morals to this story.
1) Even with my E D problems, I don't think
I had gotten that hard and that big since my twenties. (
I'm over 50 now and my record for consecutive non-ejaculating
orgasms is 8)
2) My wife says to me after we had sex that
"it really seems like you lasted a REAL LONG TIME"
(So much of a Change that she noticed and commented on it)
Thanks Suz!"
Masturbation Coaching Program - 4 full weeks
of lesson plans - $300.00
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