My
Sacred Intimate SM & Massage Work
Although my typical BDSM
work is more clearly explained else where in this site I
am going to make mention of it here as well, because the
greater majority of my "kink clients" have very
little desire or interest in working with an intention or
exploring the more depth full purposes of sacred sexual
healing.
I have often found however that when someone
comes to me with a specific intention or issue that they
want to address with we are able to work together towards
creating or accomplishing something far more magical or
healing than many people realize is possible.
There have been several instances where I
have done Sacred Intimate work with people that were coming
to me as a Mistress though because that was what I intuited
that the session called for.
One of my favorite examples was a session
that I did with a man that is quite physically handicapped
and has very little feeling in his genitals. This man agonized
for quite sometime over whether it would be alright for
him to explore anal / prostate work. I spent a fair bit
of time on-line trying to help him feel comfortable with
his desire to take that step and assure him that I would
be gentle and compassionate in my touch. After many months
of hesitation and deliberation he finally came to see me.
After doing my best to find a position that he could be
comfortable in with his physical challenges we proceeded
to explore some very gentle and nurturing "root work".
With out going into to much detail for modesty
sake I will say that by the end of our session together
he was literally sobbing on the table. When I asked him
if he was ok all he could express to me was that It had
been so long since he felt anything even remotely like that
and that he wasn't even sure it was possible again.
I cradled him in my arms for awhile and together
we just enjoyed the after glow and good feelings that we
created and shared. But after seeing him out I was so full
of joy that I could have burst for having had the patience,
knowledge, skill and opportunity to help him feel that much
pleasure again.
It is sessions like this that truly feed my
soul and help me to feel confident and joyful about my decision
to do this work with others. It truly makes me grateful
in ways I cannot fully express in words.
BDSM Explorations
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I give greater detailed information on this
area of my work else where in this site and on my other
specialty sites (linked in the menu) I have vast amounts
of experience in these realms since I have been doing professional
domination work for ore than a decade.
Some of these services include:
Power exchange & various Dominant / submissive
role play scenarios
Medical Fetish Exploration
Skillful Bondage & Discipline
Fetish Worship (foot, boot, leather, latex etc)
Massage
& Sexual Healing Work -
Sensual Full Body Massage –
Not your typical clinical massage. My professional
massage training with Body Electric focused on intentional
and heartfelt presence as well as connecting deeply and
spiritually with the whole person I am touching rather than
just rubbing body parts. I enjoy helping people feel truly
at home and alive in their bodies by helping them to keep
the focus on their own experiences and sensations while
giving them a slow sensual full body massage.
Anal / Root Chakra Massage –
My teacher and massage mentor the incomparable
Chester Mainard once said that if he only had 5 minutes
to achieve the greatest amount of relaxation, he would do
anal massage work. We carry tremendous amount of tension
and stress I our root chakras and through gentle massage
and breath work you can release that tension and truly enjoy
blissful states of relaxation.
Sacred Spot Massage work (Prostate &
G spot) –
The sacred spot in men and women is thought
to be the seat of the second charka and capable of producing
truly delicious sensations and raising tremendous erotic
energy. In men this corresponds to the prostate, in women
it is the G spot. I am experienced with massage work for
both sexes in this area.
Conscious Breath Work & Coaching –
I use conscious breathing techniques in almost
all of my sessions to some degree or another and have discovered
that breath has a remarkable capacity to both excite and
relax the body depending on the rate and depth. I can even
teach you how to have a “breath orgasm”. 
Masturbation Coaching –
I very much enjoy teaching others how to have
more fulfilling and exciting experiences by giving them
instruction on how to touch themselves with more presence
and varying their routines to include additional touch techniques
that can enable them to reach new heights or erotic enjoyment.
For more information on these offerings via email Click
Here!
Taoist Erotic Massage –
Erotic massage work that focuses on raising
the erotic energy levels in your body and channeling that
energy to create altered states of consciousness and incredible
peaks of bliss and relaxation. For more information on Taoist
Erotic Massage Click Here!
What is NOT offered!
It is always my intention to respect your
personal, physical and emotional boundaries, so please respect
mine as well.
I will not be having "straight sex" with you and
there is no oral / genital contact of any kind. I am very
health conscious (for both our sakes) so there will be absolutely
no exchange of body fluids.
Also, although I realize that many men (and some women too)
are visually oriented, I will not be nude during our sessions.
I believe that outside visual stimulation like nudity or
pornography serves mainly to take the focus off of you and
your erotic energy and takes you out of your inner experience.
Please, do not ask me to remove my clothing for our session
as I intend to keep the focus on you and provide you with
a professional and ethical service.
For more information on what I do not offer please see the
No
/ Not page.