Travel & Events Schedule
I attend many of the east coast BDSM events
& conferences and occasionally will set up appointments
on location while traveling. If you are interested in seeing
me at any of the events or locations listed below please
email me at: Mistress@SxySadist.com
and tell me what you are seeking.
Be aware that advance deposit is usually required
to secure an appointment since my schedule is usually tight
and I book a limited number of sessions when traveling.
2006 Events:
Shibaricon III - May 25 - 29 2006 Chicago IL
APeX Summer Bash V - July 14th - 16th
One of my favorite events of the year! This is a full weekend of living and playing together in a beautiful and intimate retreat 30 miles north of Albany. This is going to be an event you will not want to miss. The food is fabulous, the facility is wonderful and the dungeon is spacious and intimate. And of course there are miles and miles of trails for outdoor play and bondage, as well! For more info see their site: Albany Power Exchange / Summer Bash
Master / slave Conference - July 21 - 23 Washington DC
I am very much looking forward to attending this event for the first time!
The Master/slave Conference is an exploration of ideas and customs concerning the practice of consensual slavery. As such the conference welcomes everyone seeking to learn about and support consensual slavery. There is no requirement for attendees to currently be in a M/s relationship. The primary purpose of the MASTER / slave Conference is to provide education and training for individuals interested in or already living alternative lifestyles and relationships. The Conference setting will ensure safe space for like-minded individuals to discuss and define their own self-mystique.
The MASTER/slave Conference embraces diversity in every context including ideas. It is possible that you will not agree with everything you hear. Please respect each other's right to their own opinions. The MASTER/slave Conference does not endorse any perspective or opinion. Whether you have just begun your journey or you are well on your way - join us for the fun! Join us in an atmosphere of self-discovery and individual growth within healthy relationships.
For More Info see their web site: Master slave Conference
Leather Leadership Conference NYC - April 7 - 9
Leather Leadership Conference, Inc. invites you to become part of our effort to share the diverse and extensive body of information gathered from the many authors, educators, academics, activists and members of our community. In our conferences and other forums, we create opportunities for groups and individuals to network and share their experiences. Past topics have included: forums for community issues, handling public relations for a group, building membership, resolving conflicts, activism, and practical information on forming and maintaining a group. It is exciting to watch a process which brings so many quite different people together, while valuing the unique contributions and experience of each.
For more info visit their web site: Leather Leadership
Celebrating The Body Erotic For Women - April 21-23 NYC
Body Electric School's weekend workshop is coming to NYC on April
1st-3rd! (See description above in Oct 2007)
"you do not have to walk on your knees for a hundred miles through the desert... you only have to let the soft animal of your body love what it loves..." Mary Olive
2005 Events:
Lady Sage Feb 25 - 27
Wow,
my friend Lady Sage is coming to hang with me for a long
weekend of fun and play! She is totally hot and so much
fun to play with! We had an awesome time when I visited
her space in Ohio in December and now she is coming to NY!
Check out her site at www.LadySage.com
and drop me a note if you would like to be one of the lucky
few that gets to play with us both while she is here!
The Valentine Day Massacre Fetish Party -
Feb 12 Long Island
Mistress Mine Events* is back on Long Island!
Remember the past, enjoy the present and fantasize about
the future.
Help us rock Long Island with the hottest party. Join us
at the Venom Club for a night to remember...meet old friends
and make new ones. This is a Pan sexual party for the entire
community
Your Hostess the Legendary Mistress Nona
Featuring:
A slave/ Dom Auction
Domina Z
Suzanne SxySadist (Hey! That's me!) 
Fire Show by the Z triad
Sissy Blueballs Fellatrix
Sissy Maid Stephanie
Rugman
Hottest Mistress'
Top Doms
Leaders of Prominent Community Groups
And Free Snacks
Date:Saturday, February 12th 2005
Location: The Venom Club (Long Island's Finest BDSM club)
Address: 308 Rt. 109 East Farmingdale,NY
Time: 10 PM - 4 AM
Door Fee:
Women- $20 Single Males- $35 Couples- $50
SPACE IS LIMITED - COME EARLY
For those who are afraid to take the first
step and come out; trust us, there's no substitute for real
time. We'd like to think that we can provide the most relaxed
forum for you to experience your beginning journey in DS.
Come out and meet some of the nicest and friendliest folks
around!
David Deida Workshop in NYC April 11 - 13
& 15 - 17
I will be unavailable for sessions the evenings
of April 11 - 13 and all weekend the 15 - 17th due to these
seminars and workshop.
Class: Breath & Blood Flow Play: DomsubFriends
at Paddles NYC May 6th
There's something tremendously erotic about
surrendering your very life to someone you (believe you)
can trust. Breath play is edgy, scary, dangerous, and hot
as hell! Why do you think so many people love it!? This
class will demonstrate some of the most common forms and
styles of breath play from smothering to bagging and even
include blood flow play techniques such as carotid artery
compression. It will also include enough safety information
that you can keep the risk at manageable levels - and come
to know the signs of danger when pushed too far.
Chicago Illinois / May 26- 30 2005
I am heading back to Shibaricon
to teach a few classes this year and would love to get in
some sweet BDSM playtime as well as all that lovely rope!
2004 Events:
-
April 2 - 4 2004
Leather Leadership Conference
Leather
Leadership 8 is taking place in fabulous New Orleans
this year! I have wanted to attend this conference in the
past and something has always come up but this year my partner
and I are definitely planning to head down and have a great
time learning & sharing with the leather community.
-
April 17 2004
Capital Ball V: Weekend of Wickedness : SOLD OUT!
This promises to be one hell of a good time!
I have attended many APeX
events in the past including last year's ball and had a
fabulous time! For more info contact: NewsFromAPeX@aol.com
- April 23-26, 2004
My next long awaited DC Trip!
Yes I know it is about time, but I needed
a really good excuse to make the special trip down again
and Midori's Rope Dojo is definitely a good excuse! I plan
to head down Friday evening and return on Monday or Tuesday.
I can take appointments for the Fri night,
Sat night, Sunday night or Monday morning / afternoon. You
can check my DC
Domme site or my Eros
Ad for more info. Or write to me by clicking here: DC
Sessions
-Also April 23-25, 2004
( Although I am not going to this one this time, I HIGHLY
recommend it!)
Body
Electric's Power, Surrender & Intimacy Class For
Men and Women With Alex Jade and Michael Cunha Upstate New
York (Easton Mountain),
This workshop offers an opportunity to illuminate,
explore and integrate concepts of gender, sexuality, empowerment
and release. We will use s/m techniques of intense sensation
and bondage, combined with conscious breathing and self
awareness, as powerful tools for erotic healing and spiritual
growth. Consensual power exchanges between women, between
men, and between women and men will allow the unveiling
and liberation of the feminine/masculine and dominant/submissive
aspects of ourselves. This course is open to men and women
of all sexual orientations and gender identities who have
completed a Celebrating the Body Erotic or Two Spirits Retreat.
Class Title: Power Surrender & Intimacy
for Men & Women
Tuition: $350
Apr 23-25 , 2004 Easton Mountain, NY
- May 14 - 16 2004
Women's Celebrating the Body Erotic
I
will be assisting with E Maya at this amazing Body
Electric workshop taking place at the beautiful Easton
Mountain Retreat Center.
More on the class from the BE web site: In
a safe, serious and playful space that respects boundaries,
embrace pleasure as a healer, and experience your body as
powerful, expressive and sacred.
This full weekend course invites you to empowered
sexuality, self-defined eroticism and spiritually integrated
eros. We expand awareness through a process of breath, movement
and touch meditation, in which each woman's choices and
rhythms are honored.
This workshop is for women of all sexual orientations
who are ready to learn about their own power to illuminate
and enjoy sexuality. You will learn to give and receive
a full-body erotic massage, to focus the healing dynamic
of erotic energy and conscious breath.
Celebrating the Body Erotic for Women meets
Friday from 7:15 p.m. to 10:30 p.m., Saturday and Sunday
from 9:00 a.m. to 7:00 p.m.
-
May 21 - 23
Tes Fest 2004
The Eulenspiegel Society's annual BDSM convention
is again in the city this year and my partner and I have
already registered and are very much looking forward to
playing, going to classes, playing, seeing lots of friends,
playing with them and have a hell of a good time playing!
We are skipping the Black & Blue Ball
thursday night but I do plan to be in the city pretty much
the rest of that weekend! Hope to see you there!
-
May 27 - 31
Shibaricon - Chicago!
I cannot even begin tell you how much I am
looking forward to this one! Mmmm ROPE! I expect to be extremely
busy during the day attending classes & lectures etc
but if you are in the Chicago area and would like to meet
me for a professional play session Email
Me
- June 5 2004
Private house party
This party is open to HVDs (Hudson Valley
D/s) members and will include a class given by Ladye DragonFlye!!
- June 20 - 22 2004
Long Island visit for play sessions
I will be available on the island for private
play sessions Sunday, Monday & Tuesday morning &
afternoon. Book early & send in those deposits!! My
Long Island schedule usually fills very quickly!!
- June 22 2004
Suspension Demo / Class for LILNR
I have been asked to do a class & demonstration
on the art of rope suspension for Long Island Leather &
Roses group. Come on down!
- July 10 2004
Private Play Party
This party is open to HVDs (Hudson Valley
D/s) members and will include a class on "Single tails"
given by Boomer of Atlanta GA.
- July 16 - 18 2004
APeX Summer Bash
This July 18 - 20th weekend event is sponsored
by my good friends at the Albany
Power eXchange and will take place in a beautiful retreat
center about an hour north of Albany.
I attended their Valentines weekend event
at this same facility and had an amazing time. I strongly
recommend it! For more info contact: NewsFromAPeX@aol.com
- August 21 2004
BDSM on a Budget: Shopping For & Making
Inexpensive Toys For the Pagan Family Picnic
When first starting out in the lifestyle
I quickly discovered that BDSM toys can be very expensive,
so I used my imagination and a bunch of everyday items you
can find around the house to fill my kinky toy bag.
Although my toy bag is now quite extensive
and filled with lots and lots of e
xpensive
toys, I still enjoy making toys of my own and finding kinky
treasures in unlikely places. In this class I will tell
you some of my favorite places to shop for “pervertables”,
show off lots of examples and demonstrate a few simple things
you can make yourself.
- Sep 10 2004
Intention, Connection & Breath - Boston,
Mass!
I have been invited to Boston to teach my
Intention, Connection & Breath class. I hope to spend
an extra day in either direction (or both) visiting with
friends in the area and maybe doing a few professional sessions.
If you are in the area and would like to see me, drop me
a note. Mistress@SxySadist.com
- Sept 18 2004
Foam Party at Viramor
Wooohoooo last one of the season.. come out
and dance in the bubbles with me!
- Oct 2 2004
Private house party
featuring bondage classes given by me and
Sir Tom of HVDs
- Oct 7 - 11, 2004
Two Spirits: An Erotic Retreat for Men &
Women
My partner and I have been asked to assist
again this year at Two Spirits. This will be our fourth
time in attendance to this amazing workshop. I could never
say enough good things about Body
Electric so I will once again just post the class description
from their web site:
Women and men have so much to learn and so
much to teach each other. This four-day retreat creates
a supportive community that celebrates the healing power
of coming together to explore the erotic potential of all
human beings. We will use touch, conscious breath, full-body
erotic massage and self-pleasuring rituals to awaken the
connections between erotic energy and mysticism, and between
the feminine and masculine within ourselves. When men and
women honor their bodies and connect from their hearts,
they can access collective wisdom to nourish body and soul.
Retreats begin with dinner on the first evening
and end with lunch on the final day. $850 includes room
and board. Couples may enroll together for $1600. Register
with a $200 non-refundable deposit per person. A telephone
interview is required. Early registration is advised. For
Two Spirits-Wildwood contact Body Electric at (510) 653-1594.
For Two Spirits-Easton Mountain contact Suzanne or Stewart
Blackburn at (207) 529-5225.
- Oct 24 2004
NEFGs Fetish Auction in Sturbridge Ma, to
benefit the NCSF
I am looking forward to attending this worthy
event and doing some shopping. I have also donated a 1 hr
consultation to them for the auction. For more info visit
their site: NEFG
Fetish Auction
- Nov 5 - 7 2004
Black Rose Convention in DC
This is one of the largest BDSM events of
the year and I try to make it down for it when ever I can!
I am very much looking forward to it as "the event
of the year". Hope to see you there!
-
Nov 12 2004
Bridgett Harrington is coming to town!
and will be doing a fabulous class for us.
Bridgett is one of
the most dynamic and interesting presenters I have ever
met! I am planning to hold it at a hotle conference room
or other suitable space so that there will be space enough
for the attendees to enjoy the hands on portion of the class.
More info soon.
- Nov 19 -21
Servant's Retreat w/ Catherine Gross
A full weekend intensive retreat in Queens
for only $100.00! This sounds like a truly amazing event
ad one I would highly reccomend f!
For more info click here: Servant's
Retreat
- Dec 17 - 19
Columbus,
Ohio visit w/ Lady Sage
I will be spendng several days with the beautiful
and talented Lady Sage
in Ohio and will be accepting private appointments as well
as double domme sessions with her.
For more info or to book an appointment click
here: Ohio
Sessions
2003 Events:
- Friday April 26 2003:
The Capital Ball was wonderful! A special
thrill of the evening was being asked to be in the auction
as the only fem Domme! (Of course even sweeter than raking
in $28,000 in APeX bucks was the opportunity to finally
play with delectable "Candy" while her handsome
and loving Master watched. Mmmm it really was a delicious
evening!
- Friday April 18 2003:
Open play party at a lifestyle friendly dance
club in Highland NY! Yes, that's right for a $5.00 cover
charge you too can come on down and have a ball with fellow
kinksters. This event is repeated periodically. For more
info write to me here: Club Parties
- Wednesday April 2 - Sunday April 6th 2003:
I
will be in the Washington DC area doing private and double
sessions with Mistress Brianna in her beautiful dungeon.
For more info on this or my next trip to the area click
here: DC
Sessions
Also check out my special DC
Domme site for more info & pics of the facility!
- March 20 - 23 2003:
Bond Con! What a fabulous fun event!
The next one will be called Fetish Con and
will be taking place in Florida in Sept 2004! Come on down
for it!
June 2003 -
Lady Cheyenne is coming to NY!
That's right Lady Cheyenne
(http://www.ladycheyenne.com)
will be visiting Long Island for a few days around June
12 & 13 and has contacted me regarding doing sessions
together! I have never had the pleasure of playing with
this well known and very talented Domme but I am greatly
looking forward to getting together with her again and seeing
what sort of elicious torments we can inflict as a team.
We have agreed upon a special "two for
one" rate for double domme sessions at the Venom Club
so now is a great chance for you to fulfill those double
domme fantasies you have always dreamed of in secret. If
you want more info Email
Suzanne or
Cheyenne but hurry these slots will go fast!
This of course means that I will also be on
the island and available for day or evening private sessions
and club scenes from Tues June 10 - Fri June 13th. Email
me for an appointment.
Folsom
Street East!
Sunday June 22 from 2 - 8pm! Mmmm... an outdoor
leather market and lots and lots of scene peeps! I'm there!
This is a reat fun event for anyone that loves to shop for
toys and meet fellow kinksters!
Click the picture of the Leather Pride Apple
to get more info!
July 2003 -
Prime Time Play Party in the Hudson Valley!
On July 11th, our friends at Prime Time are
welcoming us back for another great evening of kinky fun!
For this event we will have a Bondage theme that will include:
- A suspension bondage demonstration by rope
lovers Mistress SxySadist and her special guest DeLano!
- A hands on rope bondage class by Sir Tom!
- At midnight we will have a beginner bondage contest that
the club patrons will judge to win prizes!
APeX Summer Bash
This July 18 - 20th weekend event is sponsored
by my good friends at the Albany Power eXchange and will
take place in a beautiful retreat center about an hour north
of Albany. I attended their Valentines weekend event at
this same facility and had an amazing time. I strongly recommend
it! For more info contact: NewsFromAPeX@aol.com
August 1 2003
I am popping down to LI for a "Beach
Day" and doing sessions all day Friday Aug 1 2003!
If you want to meet me while I an there drop me a note but
my schedule is filling fast!
August 2nd 2003
I will be in DC for one day attending an intensive
"Rope Dojo" with Fetish Diva Midori! Mmmmmm ropes!
<drool drool> Then I will head home for 3 days and
travel back to DC: August 6th - 10th 2003 - to do more sessions
at Brianna's.
- Sunday August 17 2003
Renaissance Fair
I am heading to the Ren Fair with a bunch
of friends for the day!! (Sorry no appointments today.)
- Friday Aug 22 2003
Foam Dance Party!
Prime
Time (my favorite local night spot) is doing another
fabulous fun Foam Party and you are invited! Come on down
and let's get wild!
- Saturday August 23 2003
APeX Bruise Cruise -
A four hour cruise to no where up the Hudson
on a 70 foot party boat filled with bondage equipment and
kinksters! Ohhhh yeah! I'm there for the second year in
a row!
- September 4 - 8 2003
Camp Crucible -
Woohoo!
What a GREAT time! Camp RULES! Can't wait to do it again
next year!
- Sat Sept 20 - 30 2003
California.. here I come!
From the 20 - 30 or so I plan to be in sunny
California visiting a family member and attending a retreat
workshop called Sacred Intimate Training by the Body
Electric School.
I may extend my trip to include some session
time if I can find a suitable facility and enough demand
to make it worthwhile. I plan to at least do sessions in
San Francisco on Sept 29th.
If
you are in California near Los Angeles / Long Beach or up
by San Francisco (as I plan to be in both areas during my
visit) and would like to have a session with me please contact
me by clicking here: Email
Suzanne
I at least plan to attend the Folsom
Street Fair while in town (check the link for more info)
- Oct 9 - 13 2003
Two Spirits By Body Electric
An Erotic Retreat for Men & Women
My partner and I have done this retreat twice
now and have been asked to assist this coming year which
we feel is a great honour.
It is a marvelous retreat for anyone that wishes to learn
more about their own sexuality and share erotic energy with
others in a safe, respectful & sacred setting. For more
info go to: Body
Electric School
Class description: Women and men have so much
to learn and so much to teach each other. This four-day
retreat creates a supportive community that celebrates the
healing power of coming together to explore the erotic potential
of all human beings. We will use touch, conscious breath,
full-body erotic massage and self-pleasuring rituals to
awaken the connections between erotic energy and mysticism,
and between the feminine and masculine within ourselves.
When men and women honor their bodies and connect from their
hearts, they can access collective wisdom to nourish body
and soul.
Retreats begin with dinner on the first evening
and end with lunch on the final day. $850 includes room
and board. Couples may enroll together for $1600. Register
with a $200 non-refundable deposit per person. A telephone
interview is required. Early registration is advised. For
Two Spirits-Wildwood contact Body Electric at (510) 653-1594.
For Two Spirits-Easton Mtn. contact Suzanne or Stewart Blackburn
at (207) 529-5225.