{"id":19019,"date":"2026-02-18T08:25:02","date_gmt":"2026-02-18T13:25:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/?page_id=19019"},"modified":"2026-02-18T08:32:01","modified_gmt":"2026-02-18T13:32:01","slug":"all-about-flogging-2","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/?page_id=19019","title":{"rendered":"All About Flogging"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I recently decided I\u2019d like to start creating more educational content for the community and this is a challenging area for me because even though I have loads of fun kinky skills knowledge, I have no experience making videos. So I have decided to start by making a couple of videos about some of the things I have learned about floggers and using them in the last 30 years. Of course, in order to do that I needed to organize some of that knowledge into an essay form first \u2013 and here it is.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed aligncenter is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<div class=\"jetpack-video-wrapper\"><span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"780\" height=\"439\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/ZCRxkV5VVpY?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en-US&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Let\u2019s talk about Flogging<\/strong>&nbsp;\u2013 Why flogging you might ask? Great question! I believe flogging is an excellent entry-level activity for newcomers to the scene. It doesn\u2019t require a great deal of time or effort to become proficient enough to create a wide variety of scenes. You can use floggers for light teasing and sensually erotic play by simply caressing the body with them. &nbsp;Alternatively, you can engage in longer, more intense sessions that involve a rhythmic, thumpy sensation and pace \u2014 perfect for guiding someone on a hypnotic, relaxing journey.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As you and your partner develop your skills and communicate effectively, flogging can also be tailored to more intense or heavy levels of play. With practice, building those advanced techniques becomes quite manageable. Flogging is a staple in kink play and mastering it is a skill you\u2019ll never regret developing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>My favorite Toymaker<\/strong>&nbsp;\u2013 I have quite a collection of floggers, and my favorites are almost all from a talented toy maker named Mitch Kessler of&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/aswgt.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">ASWGT.com<\/a>. (Adam\u2019s Sensual Whips &amp; Gillian\u2019s Toys Shameless plug? Absolutely!!) I was very fortunate to discover Mitch and Gerrie quite early in my kink journey completely by accident while reading a copy of&nbsp;<em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/130879.Screw_the_Roses_Send_Me_the_Thorns\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns<\/a><\/em>&nbsp;by Phillip Miller and Molly Devon, a classic worth checking out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">ASWGT was listed in the resources section at the back of the book, and I realized they were just one town away from where I was living at the time on Long Island! I eagerly called to ask if I could visit and less than an hour later, I was picking up my very first flogger \u2013 their beautiful \u201cclaw foot flogger\u201d! It was love at first sight, and even after more than 30 years it remains in perfect condition, showing no signs of age or it\u2019s very extensive use. &lt;grin&gt;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-1 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" data-id=\"18426\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/20251014_144756.png?w=780&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Suze circa 1990s!\" class=\"wp-image-18426\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" data-id=\"18435\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/20251014_180331.jpg?resize=768%2C1024&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Clawfoot flogger\" class=\"wp-image-18435\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/20251014_180331-scaled.jpg?resize=768%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/20251014_180331-scaled.jpg?resize=225%2C300&amp;ssl=1 225w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/20251014_180331-scaled.jpg?resize=1152%2C1536&amp;ssl=1 1152w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/20251014_180331-scaled.jpg?resize=1536%2C2048&amp;ssl=1 1536w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/20251014_180331-scaled.jpg?resize=660%2C880&amp;ssl=1 660w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/20251014_180331-scaled.jpg?w=1920&amp;ssl=1 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I began visiting their shop regularly, purchasing a wide variety of floggers, cats, paddles and other toys on my I began visiting their shop regularly, purchasing a wide variety of floggers, cats, paddles and other toys on my travel agent\u2019s salary. I think I initially started pro-domming just to feed my toy addiction! (LOL) I highly recommend their equipment to anyone looking for high-quality kink gear. Mitch has also generously offered a 10% discount to anyone who mentions that \u201cMz Suzanne\u201d sent them. You can email him directly here&nbsp;<a href=\"mailto:ASWGT12@gmail.com\">ASWGT12@gmail.com<\/a>&nbsp;I am delighted and honored to say that Mitch also helped to proof read, fact check and add some serious \u201cgeek\u201d factor to my article in the materials and sensation section. &nbsp;My huge thanks and admiration to him always!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Speaking of other toys<\/strong>&nbsp;\u2013 So what exactly distinguishes a flogger from a whip or a cat o\u2019 nine tails? Generally, a flogger is an implement with a firm handle and multiple lashes or tails, often more than you can quickly count. In contrast, a cat, or a cat o\u2019 nine tails, typically feature a longer handle with fewer, often longer, thinner tails. Cats tend to be stingier in sensation than floggers which are often thuddier, although there are exceptions, which I\u2019ll discuss shortly. Many in the kink community consider a whip to be any single-lashed implement, such as a dragon tail or a signal, snake, stock or bull whip. There is also a type of whip called a galley whip that has a flexible handle like a signal or snake whip but multiple lashes and throws more like a whip than a flogger.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Single-lash toys and cats and galley whips require a fair bit more skill and practice to throw accurately and consistently. That\u2019s why I recommend starting with floggers and working your way up as you develop your technique.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image is-style-rounded\">\n<figure class=\"alignright is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/20251014_151316.png?resize=768%2C1024&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"different cats\" class=\"wp-image-18415\" style=\"aspect-ratio:3\/4;object-fit:cover;width:200px\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><em>3 examples of cats. a nylon. rubber &amp; leather<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>What should you look for in a flogger?<\/strong>&nbsp;\u2013 Of course, you must love the aesthetic\u2014if it isn\u2019t attractive to you, you simply won\u2019t want to play with it. I strongly advise against wasting time or money on costume and\/or Sex Shop level props, they are simply not worth the effort and will give poor quality results.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My caveat to this is that I do keep a few inexpensive, small floggers made of cheap leather or nylon on hand for areas and intensities where they might get \u201cmessy,\u201d so I don\u2019t have to worry about damaging or contaminating my good-quality toys.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image is-style-rounded\">\n<figure class=\"alignleft is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/20251014_150313.png?w=780&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"inexpensive toys \" class=\"wp-image-18419\" style=\"width:200px\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><em>a few mini and inexpensive floggers<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Instead, it\u2019s far better to invest in high-quality equipment, as these will last a lifetime. Most of my collection of Mitch\u2019s toys have been with me for between 25 and 30 years.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The next most important factor is how the tool feels in your hand. How does the grip feel? Make sure it isn\u2019t slippery, and that the handle is wide enough to comfortably wrap your fingers around\u2014especially if you have long nails. I tend to prefer traditional handled floggers, but I\u2019ve also used ball-handled and finger grip varieties. Try out a few types to see what feels best for you. But above all else, absolutely check the balance! You can do this by finding the balance point with two fingers of one hand.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image is-style-rounded\">\n<figure class=\"alignright is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/20251014_154410.png?w=780&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-18400\" style=\"aspect-ratio:3\/4;object-fit:cover;width:200px\"\/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I believe that balance is crucial because it allows the implement to rest comfortably and evenly in your hand, and you will not have to work as hard at having it flow smoothly when you swing it. I believe it needs to feel like part of or an extension of you, not just something you are holding in order to use it most wonderfully, and it needs to feel balanced for that to feel right. Every toy I\u2019ve purchased from Mitch came perfectly balanced from my very first one, so I was spoiled without realizing it. Since then I\u2019ve acquired others that were completely out of balance and I mostly keep them on hand as an example of what NOT to buy and why.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image is-style-rounded\">\n<figure class=\"alignleft is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"750\" height=\"1000\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/20251014_150351sm.png?resize=750%2C1000&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"unbalanced flogger\" class=\"wp-image-18477\" style=\"aspect-ratio:3\/4;object-fit:cover;width:200px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/20251014_150351sm.png?w=750&amp;ssl=1 750w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/20251014_150351sm.png?resize=225%2C300&amp;ssl=1 225w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/20251014_150351sm.png?resize=660%2C880&amp;ssl=1 660w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For example, this massive black flogger that I received as a gift, is barely possible to hold upright in your hand properly, because the weight and balance are so badly off. When I try to swing it, it feels very front-heavy and seems like it\u2019s falling away from me. We\u2019ll go into more detail about why balance is important in the next section when I discuss how to throw and control your toys. (By the way, I love gifts, though I admit I\u2019m a bit spoiled and biased towards very high quality toys now.) &lt;grin&gt;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I also inspect the braiding and Turk\u2019s knot work. A Turk\u2019s knot is the round braided top and bottom knots on handles. You want the braiding to be even and tight. The first photo below are a few floggers made by Jeanette Heartwood who was another incredible whip make whom I was fortunate enough to meet before she passed away. in the second two photos the floggers may look similar at a first glance but when you look closely at the knots you can see how the inside of the one on the left appears \u201cbubbled\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image is-style-rounded\">\n<figure class=\"alignright is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/20251014_153154.png?w=780&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"3 by Jeanette Heartwood\" class=\"wp-image-18406\" style=\"aspect-ratio:3\/4;object-fit:cover;width:200px\"\/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Regarding length, I have heard other people suggest that you should get floggers that match the length of your shoulder to wrist, but I do not really find that to be necessary. Unless you are perhaps throwing in an under handed style where the added flogger length would be a hinderance. Personally, I think that finding a weight you are comfortable with and a length that you can extend smoothly and consistently is more important. Most floggers are available in fairly standard lengths, but having both longer and shorter options can be useful depending on the situation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A massive flogger that allows you to put all your weight behind it can deliver powerful, broad strokes\u2014ideal for impact play with lots of force. Smaller floggers, on the other hand, are perfect for close-up work or targeted play on specific areas. &lt;grin&gt; &nbsp;As a general guideline, the longer the flogger, the more energy you\u2019ll need to put into it to land it accurately and with control.&nbsp; I feel like a good mid weight flogger or two is a great starting point for any collection.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>What about materials?<\/strong>&nbsp;\u2013 Floggers can be crafted from a wide variety of materials, each offering a unique sensory experience. Factors such as the materials used, overall weight or mass, the thickness or thinness of individual strands, the finish or smoothness of those strands, and the shape of the tips (with pointed tips delivering more sting than blunt cuts or rounded tips) will all influence how the implement will feel. Additionally, how light or heavy you apply them and where you strike also play a significant role in the sensation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When considering a purchase, I highly recommend running your fingers through the lashes to feel their texture, inspecting the edges and tips for sensation, and if possible, trying it out to get a sense of how it will feel to the receiver during use.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Please note! I strongly advise against buying floggers online especially from over seas shops like Pakistan or India, where you are not able to actually FEEL them before you buy them. I have gotten several \u201cleather items\u201d that were imitation garbage or horribly thin and just not worth the money. Buyer definitely beware. (LOL Trust me \u2013 just go to&nbsp;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.aswgt.com\/\">ASWGT.com<\/a>)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>A note about switching:<\/strong>&nbsp;Since I entered the lifestyle as a switch, I often had a trusted friend use a flogger on me when I was first learning to top. This firsthand experience helped me better understand what certain sensations actually feel like and what my partner might experience during play. Many Tops and Dominants believe that bottoming isn\u2019t necessary to be skilled at topping, but I firmly believe that experiencing it yourself offers invaluable insight into what your partner is likely to feel\u2014at least physically.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Emotional, psychological, spiritual, hormonal, and other factors also influence how sensations are experienced on any given day, making each experience constantly shifting and difficult to predict exactly how someone else is feeling. However, I believe it\u2019s my responsibility as a top to try to understand, as best as possible, what I\u2019m delivering, and to observe my partner\u2019s responses to gauge how it\u2019s landing. More on this later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It could be useful to develop a sensation memory of what each flogger used on your back or butt in a scene, feels like as a stroke or two on your arm, so as to compare a new or borrowed flogger to your past experience. As I have stated, there are vast differences in then sensations created in all the different hides, finishes, masses etc.&nbsp; You cannot assume all toys will be received the same by your partner, bottom or submissive.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Please check your ego long enough to realize that just because you become familiar with what a sensation feels like doesn\u2019t mean you are a submissive or a masochist and you have not lost your \u201cDomly Dom\u201d status. &nbsp;Think of it as gathering vital information. I promise\u2014they won\u2019t take your Top card away if you do it for research. LOL&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image is-style-rounded\">\n<figure class=\"alignright is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/20251014_144559-scaled.png?ssl=1\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/20251014_144559.png?resize=300%2C225&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"My ASWGT floggers\" class=\"wp-image-18428\" style=\"width:auto;height:200px\"\/><\/a><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Leathers:<\/strong>&nbsp;Among the most traditional and popular materials are various types of animal hides, including cow, deer, elk, moose, bull, lamb, rabbit, and more. These leathers come in a remarkable array of textures\u2014from soft as butter to heavy and thuddy, or super stingy. Be sure to try out different types to find what feels right for you and the people you play with!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Deer is very soft, but can be stingy if the tresses are wide, or thuddy if there are a lot of them. &nbsp;Mitch tells me that these days almost all \u201cmoose\u201d ( which is about 50% thicker than deer) is actually \u201celk\u201d, because of a brain worm epidemic in moose habitats. (sad face) Even the elk is increasingly expensive and hard to come by. Bull hide is, of course \u201cthicker\u201d and denser than cow hide which is often heavier than deer. Think in terms of how much intensity and sensation you want to create.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Size matters!<\/strong>&nbsp;\u2013 Mitch also offered me a bit of leather geekiness to share with you here. He says that buyers can talk to toy makers about the leather they want in the makers\u2019 language if they specify leather thickness in \u201counces\u201d rather than \u201cinches\u201d. For example, one ounce is 1\/64<sup>th<\/sup>&nbsp;of an inch while eight ounces is 1\/8<sup>th<\/sup>&nbsp;and is about the thickest leather whipmakers use. There ARE some \u201cexotics\u201d that are thicker, but he doesn\u2019t know who if anyone uses them and doesn\u2019t want to THINK about the prices or the Endangered Species issues. I completely agree and don\u2019t think it is worth considering. There are more than enough lovely leathers that come from animals humans already consume without going after others.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image is-style-rounded\">\n<figure class=\"alignleft is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/20251014_144637sm.png?ssl=1\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1333\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/20251014_144637sm.png?resize=780%2C1040&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"horsehair floggers\" class=\"wp-image-18467\" style=\"aspect-ratio:3\/4;object-fit:cover;width:200px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/20251014_144637sm.png?w=1000&amp;ssl=1 1000w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/20251014_144637sm.png?resize=225%2C300&amp;ssl=1 225w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/20251014_144637sm.png?resize=768%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/20251014_144637sm.png?resize=660%2C880&amp;ssl=1 660w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 780px) 100vw, 780px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Horsehair:<\/strong>&nbsp;I\u2019m also very fond of horsehair floggers. They make an excellent warm-up toy because they are lightly stingy and brushy. You can use them all over the body to enliven and sensitize the skin, warming things up beautifully. But don\u2019t mistake them for wimpy toys\u2014if used long enough, horsehair can generate a lot of heat!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It is not impossible for horsehair to \u201cdraw blood\u201d due to the very stingy nature of the horse hair.&nbsp; Generally, it will be light, \u201ccapillary\u201d bleeding and easily stopped with a wipe of cold water. But the point Is if you get a little bit of bleeding in sensitive areas \u201cdon\u2019t worry \u2013 it happens!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image is-style-rounded\">\n<figure class=\"alignright is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/20251014_145104sm.png?ssl=1\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1333\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/20251014_145104sm.png?resize=780%2C1040&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"trio of floggers\" class=\"wp-image-18469\" style=\"aspect-ratio:3\/4;object-fit:cover;width:200px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/20251014_145104sm.png?w=1000&amp;ssl=1 1000w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/20251014_145104sm.png?resize=225%2C300&amp;ssl=1 225w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/20251014_145104sm.png?resize=768%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/20251014_145104sm.png?resize=660%2C880&amp;ssl=1 660w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 780px) 100vw, 780px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Nylon:<\/strong>&nbsp;Nylon floggers come in a wide variety of types and textures. I have some that are whisper-soft and fluffy, others where the thin nylon strands are dipped in liquid latex which sting like heck, and I even made one myself under Mitch\u2019s brilliant tutelage using braided paracord lashes that have a heavy, stingy feel when they land. The point here is nylon can range from very soft to really stingy and everything between. &nbsp;Shop cautiously and understand what you are buying.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image is-style-rounded\">\n<figure class=\"alignleft is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/20251014_145158.png?ssl=1\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/20251014_145158.png?w=780&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"rope and chain floggers \" class=\"wp-image-18421\" style=\"aspect-ratio:3\/4;object-fit:cover;width:200px\"\/><\/a><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Rope and chain&nbsp;<\/strong>I currently have only one rope flogger that I made myself, but they can offer a variety of sensations depending on the type of rope because it comes in a WIDE variety of textures and materials also. Furthermore, factors like whether it\u2019s twisted or braided, allowed to flay open for a softer feel, or knotted at the end all influence the experience. The one I made myself uses a rope with metal fibers running through it to conduct electricity\u2014a very interesting and fun addition.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Same thing with the ball bead flogger, I don\u2019t use it for swinging because it could do some serious damage if you put some oomph behind it, but it\u2019s great for sensation play or electrical fun. I LOVE putting it in the freezer for a bit and using it to cool things down here and there but just letting it drape and slide over the skin. &lt;evil smile&gt;<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image is-style-rounded\">\n<figure class=\"alignright is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/20251014_150610.png?ssl=1\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/20251014_150610.png?w=780&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"rubber floggers\" class=\"wp-image-18417\" style=\"aspect-ratio:3\/4;object-fit:cover;width:200px\"\/><\/a><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Rubber:<\/strong>&nbsp;Rubber can be quite intense\u2014some might jokingly refer to it as \u201cevil\u201d! I enjoy a variety of rubber toys, ranging from those with thin rubber strands that can be playfully swished over the body, to others that deliver a sharp, punishing sensation. For the thicker rubber implements, such as \u00bc inch or more in diameter, the lashes can be very severe and demanding a very special kind of masochist to endure\u2014and possibly enjoy. These are definitely not suitable for beginners, so please use them with extreme caution. I also appreciate using them in scenarios where they might come into contact with body fluids, as they are very easy to clean and maintain.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Bottom line<\/strong>&nbsp;\u2013 so in summary if you are shopping for your first flogger pick up one that is well-made, feels good in your hand and is&nbsp;<strong>BALANCED<\/strong>. Give thought to the kind of sensation it will deliver. Choose something that is medium weight in mass and that has mid to lite range in texture like a deer skin flogger with blunt tips as a good starting point while you develop your skills. You can swing a lite flogger heavier to give more sensation but a heavy or super stingy flogger is tougher to dial down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I believe that covers the fundamentals of how to select a high-quality implement and understand the different sensations they can produce based on their various characteristics. Next, let&#8217;s explore techniques to broaden the range of sensations you can achieve by how you wield and use them. It\u2019s time to get hands-on. That\u2019s right\u2014it&#8217;s time to pick up a flogger and learn how to use it with confidence and care. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>How to throw a flogger<\/strong> &#8211; First off, if you&#8217;ve never thrown a flogger before, I highly recommend practicing against a hanging pillow or something softish that somewhat replicates what a body would be like to hit. Something that can somewhat absorb the impact like memory foam under a sheet so you don\u2019t tear it up and have bits of foam everywhere. &#x1f60a; I like making a targeted area by tape marking a large plus sign (+) target. In the photo here my cross has a padded surface that helps absorb the impact.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Think of the quadrants as upper right and left, and lower right and left\u2014like shoulders and cheeks. Then, practice hitting these areas with consistent aim and control.&nbsp; &nbsp;This helps you get a feel for the implement and develop some consistency. &nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It was pointed out to me that if you swing a flogger hard against a wall or other surface with no give, that you could damage the implement. &nbsp;PLEASE DO NOT trash your lovely new toys by beating them to a pulp against something that will fray or shred the tresses. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Side note<\/strong> &#8211; Hopefully this is obvious but hitting people in harmful ways can cause damage and scare off potential playmates (rightfully so!). Be sure to get a good amount of practice under your belt before you move on to hitting living things. (OK well I admit to cutting an awful lot of leaves with single tails.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When you do feel ready to actually throw floggers at humans, I think it would be wise and advisable to practice on an experienced bottom that is able to negotiate well and give you truthful and honest feedback. Let your ego take a rest and make sure you are building a solid skill base.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ok actually throwing the flogger<\/strong> &#8211; can be a bit challenging to describe in words, which is why I made this  companion video to go along with this article. However, I\u2019ll do my best to explain the basic technique.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-8f761849 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:25px\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<div class=\"jetpack-video-wrapper\"><span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"780\" height=\"439\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/NLxc2Wa3G8M?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en-US&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:25px\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Basic Overhand Stroke &#8211;<\/strong> Start with your stance evenly balanced on both feet, standing squarely without leaning forward or backward. If you lean, your body will be unbalanced, and you\u2019ll likely have a longer reach than if you maintain good posture. Once you develop a consistent swing and understand your range, you can start varying your stance more. I also suggest wearing flats to my lady friends, though I know that\u2019s not a popular opinion\u2014I\u2019ve found that after many years of wearing high heels while working, my back has suffered greatly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hold the flogger in your dominant hand, thinking of it not just as a tool but as an extension of your arm. As you swing, focus on channeling your energy and intention through the tips of the flogger\u2014aiming to fully extend your arm outward, then bringing it back in a smooth, controlled motion..<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Begin with simple out-and-back overhand strokes, practicing this 10 to 12 times with your dominant hand. Pay close attention to the feedback\u2014feel when the flogger connects with your target. Tune into how hard you&#8217;re connecting and whether the tips land together. Once you\u2019re comfortable, repeat the exercise with your non-dominant hand. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Learning to use both hands offers several benefits: it promotes better overall balance in your body, reduces strain on a single shoulder, and allows you to extend your practice sessions by switching arms\u2014resting one while working the other. Building muscle memory in both hands gives you an edge when progressing to more advanced techniques like Florentine flogging. Plus, practically, if you ever sustain an injury\u2014say, from a snowmobile accident\u2014and can&#8217;t use your dominant arm, you&#8217;ll still be able to practice and enjoy. I wish I had been told this early; training both hands from the start would have made a big difference for me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Scaling Energy and Force (1\u201310)<\/strong> &#8211; Once your muscle memory starts to establish, experiment with varying the amount of energy or force behind each stroke, from as light as possible to as heavy as you can control accurately. Practice adjusting your force within this scale. For example, hit a \u201c5\u201d consistently for 10 or 12 strokes, then try going a bit harder or softer while maintaining accuracy and hitting your target. This helps you develop control and feel for different intensities. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Additionally, try to develop a sense of how to swipe with a glancing blow that connects lightly and then swishes across the body, as opposed to strikes that &#8220;stick the landing.&#8221; Those strikes that deliver all their force into the hit and then drop away tend to have a greater impact and should probably be reserved for after the warm-up. Learning to control the force and finesse of your strikes will help you achieve the desired sensation and keep the experience safe and enjoyable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Other Flogging Strokes<\/strong> &#8211; Here are a few other types of strokes to consider as you build your repertoire. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Figure 8s<\/strong> &#8211; This can be tricky to describe, but I\u2019ll try. After completing your overhand stroke and returning with the flogger, you can perform a figure 8 (actually an infinity symbol\u2014lol). When doing this, you have a choice: keep the back of your hand facing up\u2014this allows for a more focused return stroke\u2014or roll your wrist so the flogger gets an under hand or what I call a \u201csoft return.\u201d But is also called a cascade or waterfall technique<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This gentler return stroke lets the flogger fall more lightly on the body, with tails that splay out a bit more. Both methods are fine\u2014deliberately choosing either variation allows you to create different sensations and diversify your technique. It\u2019s helpful to learn both ways now so that when you move on to longer whips, you won\u2019t need to relearn figure 8s from scratch. Trust me, you&#8217;ll thank me later. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Florentine Flogging<\/strong> &#8211; This one is more advanced and takes practice, but it feels and looks fantastic once you get it. After mastering figure 8s with both hands individually, the goal is to have one whip in each hand, working together with quick, split-second timing. It\u2019s a &#8220;follow the leader&#8221; rhythm\u2014first one hand, then the other. You\u2019ll experience moments of frustration (\u201cI don\u2019t have it yet\u201d), but eventually, it clicks, and the technique becomes natural.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Take breaks if needed\u2014return to simple figure 8s or other strokes, then try again. I don\u2019t consider myself a master of Florentine flogging, but I enjoy using a simple four-part hand-over-hand pattern. Mixing tools\u2014like horsehair and lambskin or bunny fur with something thuddier\u2014is also perfectly fine. Just pay attention to the lengths of the implements; if one is longer, you may need to adjust your stance or find another way to compensate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Sideways Swing \u2013 Batter Up!<\/strong><br>Swinging the flogger sideways requires you to shift your body so you are standing perpendicular to the target, executing a smooth horizontal stroke. I strongly advise caution when using this technique on someone, as these swings tend to deliver deeper force into the body. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Vertical Bodies<\/strong> &#8211; Most of the strokes I described above are intended to be used on someone who is standing upright or in a vertical position. It should be obvious, but when a body is in a vertical plane\u2014as opposed to a flat wall\u2014there are areas that stick out more than others. As you swipe a flogger through the air, it will naturally make contact with these prominent spots more easily than with less prominent areas. Duh, right? You\u2019d think so, but when I was starting out with floggers, one of my exes had this lovely &#8220;bubble butt&#8221;\u2014and I quickly learned to pay attention to the body\u2019s contours to better target my strikes rather than accidentally abusing the top shelf as much. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Horizontal Targets <\/strong>&#8211; I also suggest you work on swings that would land onto a bed or massage table and think in terms of a person laying there.  You can use either glancing blows that hit and continue across the surface or ones that are focused to land and stay on a particular area. Remembering that these may feel far more intense and you have to pay extra attention to under lying structure. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>It&#8217;s a Wrap!<\/strong> &#8211; This is a good moment to emphasize the importance of being aware of your tips. If you swing a flogger from the side and the implement extends past the body, those tips can whip around with enough centrifugal force to cause serious pain\u2014or even actual injury! This phenomenon is called a wrap. Light, sensual, caress-like wraps can be quite lovely, but anything more intense can be genuinely unpleasant.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Another area to watch out for is when working on the back\u2014make sure your tips do not extend over the top of the shoulder. Collarbone wraps can be truly miserable! The good news is that it\u2019s easy to correct: simply take another half step back, ensuring that your flogger fully lands on the body and avoids wrapping around other areas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To practice this technique before working on a partner, you can try using a thick pillow and keep the tips on the pillow, not wrapping over the edges. This helps you become more aware of your control and prevent unwanted wraps.  It happens, we all do it from time to time but whenever possible try your best to minimize it.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Before you start hitting people <\/strong>&#8211; If you\u2019re still reading this, then you\u2019re clearly a dedicated kinkster\u2014which is great! I hope this means you\u2019ve already done some research on important lifestyle practices like communication, consent, limits, safe words, negotiations, and aftercare. This article is NOT intended to cover all those foundational concepts, so please make sure you are well-versed in them before actually hitting someone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">One important point to remember: just because you are the Top or Dominant doesn\u2019t mean you are all-powerful or all-knowing. It\u2019s essential to keep a beginner\u2019s mind when learning new skills. No matter what type of dynamic you have with your bottom, it is YOUR responsibility to keep them safe and do no harm. Be open to communication\u2014encourage your partner to tell you how you\u2019re doing. If you\u2019re hitting too high or too low, wrapping the tails over the shoulder or around the hips, you need to learn how to correct your technique. Don\u2019t expect them to simply endure poor technique. Even if they hand you a blank check and say they have no limits, use common sense. Never hit someone in places or with enough force that could cause damage. Prioritize safety and mutual respect at all times.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ok What can I hit? <\/strong>&#8211; The most common areas we\u2019re advised to use floggers are the upper and mid back, buttocks, front and back of the thighs, and the chest. Please be extra cautious around breast tissue, as it can be easily damaged. However, I believe it\u2019s more important to actually look at and gently run your hand over (with permission) the body you\u2019re working on. Every human body is different\u2014some people have a thicker layer of muscle or fat over their underlying structures than others. Some very slender people I have met have very little fleshiness between their skin and their shoulder blades for example while other folks have great padding.&nbsp; You have to be able to adapt your play level to each person&#8217;s body and comfort level, limits and mood.  And please remember that can be different on different days.  Just because he or she could take a heavy and intense flogging one day, that may not be true when they are in the midst of their menstrual cycle or had a really tough week at work.  So please always communicate with your partner and ask what areas they enjoy sensation on and how much, as well as which areas are off-limits or overly sensitive. A good top will be able to adjust to their partner&#8217;s comfort level and ability in the moment. no matter what your power dynamic looks like. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Everyone says to avoid the kidneys! Like, seriously, it\u2019s often considered a no-fly zone between the upper back and the butt and I am not saying this isn\u2019t true but I feel having critical thinking skills are more valuable than pat rules with no explanation or understanding of WHY it\u2019s a rule. I would prefer that we use some common sense! &nbsp;If you\u2019re doing a light to moderate Florentine or cross-body flogging, and your strokes graze over the upper to mid-back, flowing down and glancing over the kidney area, you\u2019re unlikely to cause harm. However, heavy or deep blows directed specifically into the kidney area are a different matter and could cause damage. &nbsp;Make sense?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The same applies to the front of the body, particularly the belly or breasts. It\u2019s worth repeating that it\u2019s crucial to discuss potential risks with your partner\u2014especially around striking breast tissue\u2014and make sure they don\u2019t have piercings, cysts, or other contraindications. If the breasts are not a part of YOUR actual body &#8211; then it should be up to the owner how much impact they are comfortable with receiving on them.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It all comes down to knowing what you\u2019re hitting, understanding the underlying structures, and controlling the force of your strikes. Do not go there until you\u2019re confident you can manage these factors safely and then negotiate properly and receive enthusiastic consent and ongoing communication to be sure they are still on board throughout.   <\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Technique is great, Connection is key!<\/strong> &#8211; This should seem obvious, but often when someone is new to a skill set, they can get caught up in executing the technique rather than paying attention to the effect it\u2019s having on their partner. Yes, technique is important, but your primary goal is to hopefully create a great experience with another human being.&nbsp; Hopefully someone you like, so please pay attention to how it is being received. Even if your partner is facing away from you, you can still watch for subtle body language cues\u2014are they holding tension in their shoulders, clenching their buttocks, gripping the cuffs tightly as if their life depends on it, or stopping their breathing altogether? What noises are they making or not making? &nbsp;Sometimes, a bottom or submissive will endure unpleasant or painful play without speaking up or using their safe word because they have been told they must endure no matter what, or they don&#8217;t want to disappoint you.  Some bottoms with past trauma can go non verbal in situations where they are unable to communicate their needs. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s crucial to watch them carefully so you can gauge how they\u2019re doing long before it reaches a point of serious discomfort or harm. Even if you think you know how they\u2019re feeling, check in with them. A simple method I use is asking them, on a scale of 1 to 10\u2014where 1 is &#8220;yawn&#8221; and 10 is &#8220;RED&#8221;\u2014how intense the stroke feels. I can then adjust the force accordingly by increasing or decreasing the intensity as needed. Always make sure to warm them up before moving on to heavier play, even if they\u2019re eager for it. Most bodies need some time to transition from a non-play state to more intense sensations. Very few people can go from 0 to 60 instantly and enjoy it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>The Importance of Breath<\/strong> &#8211; I\u2019ll touch on this briefly, as this article has already grown longer than I initially planned, but I want to emphasize that learning to breathe properly was the single most important thing I ever discovered for enjoying intense sensations as a bottom. I became aware of the concept of conscious breathwork through <a href=\"https:\/\/bodyelectric.org\/\">The Body Electric School<\/a>, and it completely transformed how I process pain by teaching me how to use my breath to transmute or move the sensation. &nbsp;Hey, if breathwork can help a woman endure childbirth, it can definitely get you through a flogging.&nbsp; &lt;wink&gt;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Seriously though, I&#8217;ve discovered that different forms of breathwork can lead to a variety of outcomes. Breathwork helps me move energy and sensations throughout my body, soothing my parasympathetic nervous system and promoting relaxation. Some techniques can even build energy in exciting ways, leading to intense experiences like breath orgasms. Additionally, breathwork enhances my ability to tolerate stronger sensations and access endorphins more easily, helping me stay grounded and connected to my body. Depending on my intention and desire, it can also facilitate deep emotional connections or allow me to experience a sense of soaring freedom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I find it incredibly helpful, especially when topping for others, to guide them into deeper, more rhythmic breathing rather than just gritting their teeth and trying to push through. Having someone follow your breath pattern creates a connection on another level, heightening intimacy and trust. I strongly encourage you to learn more about this\u2014they\u2019re truly valuable skills to develop. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em><strong>In conclusion<\/strong>&#8230;<\/em><br>I hope you\u2019ve found this article helpful and informative. I welcome your respectful feedback or questions anytime at <a href=\"mailto:Mistress@SxySadist.com\">Mistress@SxySadist.com<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Most importantly, I wish you all the best in your explorations\u2014have fun, stay safe, and enjoy the journey!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To download a printable copy of this class, you can <a href=\"https:\/\/www.smantics.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/AllAboutFlogging%E2%80%93MzSuzanneSxySadist.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">click here<\/a>!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I recently decided I\u2019d like to start creating more educational content for the community and this is a challenging area&hellip; <a class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/?page_id=19019\">Read more <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">All About Flogging<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":18535,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-19019","page","type-page","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/19019","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=19019"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/19019\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/18535"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=19019"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}