{"id":11761,"date":"2019-11-24T12:49:52","date_gmt":"2019-11-24T17:49:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/?p=11761"},"modified":"2019-11-24T12:49:52","modified_gmt":"2019-11-24T17:49:52","slug":"ch-ch-ch-ch-changes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/?p=11761","title":{"rendered":"Ch-ch-ch-ch-changes&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As some of my followers know, my long time boyfriend is soon to become my live-in servant, slave, plaything, pet&#8230; well whatever.  Labels are just so limiting, don&#8217;t you think?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But having him under foot all the time  (<em>so to speak<\/em>&#8230;<em> snicker<\/em>) made me realize there needed to be some ground rules laid out.  After all, as an alpha female, I like things as <em>I<\/em> like them, <em>especially<\/em> in <em>my<\/em> house.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I decided a tenancy contract was in order.  He has made noises for years about his desire to marry me and become my husband, so I see this as a kind of <strong>&#8216;trial period<\/strong>&#8216; to see if he can live up to my expectations of a future spouse!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But what should such a contract include? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I&#8217;ve racked my brain thinking of all the things that needed to be covered&#8230; insuring that he would be happy here, but more importantly  that his presence would be a wonderful enhancement to my life and not a burdensome, annoyance.  I am used to having MY place to MY self and doing what I want, when I want, and with whom I want!  I use the bathtub when it pleases me, eat what and when I feel like it,  use my home gym on my own time, work when I&#8217;m in the mood to tie up and torture a man&#8230; I wanted to be clear that none of that had better change just because he&#8217;s moving in.  Then there are things like yard work, grocery shopping, laundry, cooking, cleaning, paying bills&#8230; chores that needed doing to keep the house running smoothly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And of course, I want to take care of his needs as well!  I <em>AM<\/em> a loving dominant!  His diet, regular exercise, need to submit&#8230; I want him to live a very long time!  You have <em>NO<\/em> idea how much effort I&#8217;ve invested in training him!  I&#8217;d absolutely <em>HATE<\/em> to have to start all over with someone new just because he had the audacity to go and die on me, leaving me with only a pile of life insurance money.  \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So after weeks and weeks of careful thought, this is the contract I drew up.  What do you think?  Did I miss anything?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery columns-1 is-cropped wp-block-gallery-1 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\"><ul class=\"blocks-gallery-grid\"><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Contract-1024x678.jpg?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"780\" height=\"516\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Contract.jpg?resize=780%2C516&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"11760\" class=\"wp-image-11760\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Contract.jpg?resize=1024%2C678&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Contract.jpg?resize=300%2C199&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Contract.jpg?resize=768%2C509&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Contract.jpg?resize=1536%2C1017&amp;ssl=1 1536w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Contract.jpg?resize=200%2C133&amp;ssl=1 200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Contract.jpg?resize=660%2C437&amp;ssl=1 660w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Contract.jpg?w=2029&amp;ssl=1 2029w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 780px) 100vw, 780px\" \/><\/a><\/figure><\/li><\/ul><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P.S. Sorry my belt got in the picture.  <em>COMPLETELY<\/em> unintentional&#8230; \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As some of my followers know, my long time boyfriend is soon to become my live-in servant, slave, plaything, pet&#8230;&hellip; <a class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/?p=11761\">Read more <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Ch-ch-ch-ch-changes&#8230;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":11787,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[6,8,51],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11761","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-erotica-memoirs","category-general-blogging","category-slave-diary"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Key.jpg?fit=445%2C661&ssl=1","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11761","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=11761"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11761\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/11787"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=11761"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=11761"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=11761"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}