{"id":13494,"date":"2021-08-05T12:57:36","date_gmt":"2021-08-05T16:57:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/?p=13494"},"modified":"2021-10-06T12:47:19","modified_gmt":"2021-10-06T16:47:19","slug":"todays-pet-peeve","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/?p=13494","title":{"rendered":"Today&#8217;s pet peeve&#8230;."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So I REALLY have to vent for a moment.  I am still taken aback by how many freaking men think that it is fine and appropriate to introduce themselves by saying, &#8220;Hey dear, babe, sweetie, hon etc&#8221; to a woman in general &#8211; let alone a dominant woman.   Just today someone on iFit (who has no idea what I do for a living) texted me out of the blue saying &#8220;Hello dear, how are you today?&#8221;  Now, I am sure a lot of guys are thinking &#8211; &#8220;umm ok so, what&#8217;s wrong with that?&#8221; To that I would like to ask you, have you EVER uttered those words to another man, especially one your don&#8217;t know? Something even remotely similar? No? Really?  Why not?  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The fact you think it&#8217;s ok to talk to a woman like that but not a man doesn&#8217;t help you realize that it&#8217;s wrong and inappropriate?  It is condescending and sexist as hell and in this day and age you really ought to take a look at that behavior.  That is all. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So I REALLY have to vent for a moment. I am still taken aback by how many freaking men think&hellip; <a class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/?p=13494\">Read more <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Today&#8217;s pet peeve&#8230;.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13494","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-ask-a-dominatrix"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13494","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=13494"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13494\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=13494"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=13494"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=13494"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}