{"id":2474,"date":"2008-07-20T20:08:06","date_gmt":"2008-07-21T03:08:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/Blog\/?p=79"},"modified":"2008-10-07T22:24:39","modified_gmt":"2008-10-08T05:24:39","slug":"not-totally-vanilla","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/?p=2474","title":{"rendered":"Catching up on a bunch of odds &#038; ends&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sorry I have been away so long &#8230; Brett was here\u00a0the week before last for a four day weekend (Thurs evening &#8211; Tuesday very early am) and will in fact be here those days on a pretty regular basis\u00a0as we move into the next phase of our relationship, (which is the\u00a0slightly more than half the week living together phase).\u00a0 So far so good by the way. \u00a0I think things are going amazingly well\u00a0between us. I really love the way we are together and several of my dearest friends\u00a0have commented that they&#8217;ve never seen me so happy so they think he is great for me.\u00a0 He also\u00a0got the &#8220;Leather Clan&#8221; seal of approval.<\/p>\n<p>I will admit though that I am still getting the hang of having him here for such long stretches and in some ways it is wonderful because I really enjoy his company!! \u00a0&lt;grin&gt; He makes me laugh like all the time because he has such a happy and cheerful spirit.\u00a0 I also love having such a capable and attentive partner around the house!\u00a0He is always finding odd chores to take care of for me on top of the &#8220;honey do&#8221;\u00a0items I\u00a0always seem to be throwing at him.\u00a0About the only drawback so far is that\u00a0I find myself\u00a0wanting to spend time with him more than I want to get any work done so I will need to get a bit more focussed on that as time goes on but so far I am managing to keep the bills paid only working part time.<\/p>\n<p>Last week\u00a0we had a perfect mix of time well spent together! He helped me buy and put together a new cabinet for my &#8220;Temple&#8221; to store my over abundance of dungeon gear.\u00a0 After the ensuing major reorganization project\u00a0I naturally needed to rechristen the playroom and did a fun little scene that began with some fairly mean toe bondage\u00a0 and evolved into a lovely little predicament that amused the hell out of me! &lt;grin&gt;\u00a0 We also spent some time with my leather family helping them out with some things as they prepared for a well deserved vacation.\u00a0 We grocery shopped like a nice normal\u00a0vanilla couple, snuggled and watched some TV, did yard work together, took a nice drive on Sunday, and even hit an old fashioned ice cream shop for a\u00a0banana split! How fabulously middle America huh?<\/p>\n<p>Well,\u00a0we also\u00a0finished the last evening with me taking him gently but firmly over my lap in bed with a vibrator between us hitting sweet spots for us both, while\u00a0I commenced to spanking his sweet smooth ass til it glowed hot and pink.\u00a0 Then I had him kneel at the foot of the bed and stroke himself for my visual entertainment as I pleasured myself with my favorite vibrator.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Eventually I got out a dildo as well and had him orally work it for me for awhile\u00a0before I slid it inside myself and made him simply watch as I got more and more turned on.\u00a0 I have mostly been in relationships as a switch in the past and I am truly enjoying stepping more fully into my dominance with <img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright\" style=\"float: right; margin: 5px; border: black 5px solid;\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/wp-content\/uploads\/blogpics\/EstesPark.jpg?resize=350%2C350\" alt=\"\" width=\"350\" height=\"350\" \/>him.\u00a0\u00a0I love that I can be pretty much as kinky as my little heart desires with him and he loves me like crazy for it!\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>This most recent weekend was a slightly shorter one but we played some more, shopped some more (this time for a whole new patio set including a waterfall and new barbeque) and made love a lot more but he had to return tonight to LI because he had a special previous engagement with his family.<\/p>\n<p>But he will be back up here Tuesday evening long enough to crash and then hop a flight with me to Denver Wednesday morning! Woohoo <a title=\"Thunder in the Mountains\" href=\"http:\/\/www.thunderinthemountains.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Thunder in the Mountains<\/a> here we come! I have never been to Colorado so I am really looking forward to doing a little sightseeing while we are there!\u00a0\u00a0He has promised to start by taking me hiking in\u00a0Estes State Park.<\/p>\n<p>I am also going to finally meet my buddy Drew! I met Drew on-line over 10 years ago and we have been friends all this time, spent countless hours on the phone and emailed, exchanged cards and letters and so on for all these years but I am finally going to get to physically hug him and his sweet bride for the first time this coming Friday night.\u00a0 How wild is that?<\/p>\n<p>Ok that&#8217;s enough for tonight .. I am going to go curl up and relax for a bit.. more soon.\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sorry I have been away so long &#8230; Brett was here\u00a0the week before last for a four day weekend (Thurs&hellip; <a class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/?p=2474\">Read more <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Catching up on a bunch of odds &#038; ends&#8230;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2474","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2474","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2474"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2474\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2474"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2474"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sxysadist.com\/MainSite\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2474"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}