Many of my real life “victims” have written me letters after a scene to thank me. Some have even written specific references for me and I will post a few here. It always warms my heart to get letters like these and makes me happy to know they enjoyed out time together as much as I did.
More will be added on occasion but in all cases I am withholding names to protect their identities. And no, I didn’t coerce them to say good things with threats of severe beatings! Although many of these little darlings would consider that a wonderful reward. I am also able to provide on line or email references for any newbies that may be a bit hesitant to meet so don’t be afraid to ask if you are still not convinced.
Best wishes, Mistress Suzanne “SxySadist”
Brief Testimonials
“This was my first time venturing down this path and I’m very glad it was with Ms Suzanne. First time anxiety vanished and before you know it I was tied up having been subjected to some electro play. The pre-scene preparation really paid off. Ms Suzanne was very attentive and caring which makes one feel at ease. She has an amazing ability to read when someone can start to be pushed and to explore. She can also be firm when required, which is fun. Post session after care was very reassuring which puts to rest any anxiety one may have after a play session. Driving home my mind was wandering and I had a cheeky smile on my face! For anyone wondering about taking their first steps…you only live once! Take the plunge, with Ms Suzanne you will not be disappointed.” – March 2024
“I’ve seen Ms Suzanne’s web site for years, but finally got up the courage to contact her. I’m a lifelong submissive, crossdresser, bondage aficionado and general purpose slave.
Our time together was in a word, fantastic. We played for four hours and there was not a dull moment. The Mistress was very attentive to my stated preferences, but more importantly she is a warm, wonderful person with a sparkling personality. I was comfortable in her presence from the moment I met her. And, no small thing, she is a very sexy woman.
If you’re looking for time with a dominatrix I can’t imagine you could find someone better than Mistress Suzanne. Bravo to this wonderful woman.” – Kathy
“I recently had my first (amazing) session with Mz Suzanne. Even though I was not totally a newbie, I was still quite nervous. She immediately made me feel comfortable and safe, and seemed to know me right away just based on my pre-scene form. Nervousness quickly turned to excitement and just kept getting better from there. She introduced me to various dungeon pleasures, and brilliantly mixes sensuality and seduction with dominance. I eagerly await our next session to revisit some favorite fantasies, and explore new experiences and expand my boundaries further. On a personal note, it hit me after our session, that she also helped me learn a lot about myself… and the absolute joy of giving yourself totally to another person. Thank you Mistress”
– Chris
“You must have a pretty good read on me because you knew exactly how far you could go without going too far. My trust in you never wavered and I felt safe, cared for and cared about from start to finish.”
I had the most amazing experience with Mz Suzanne. It was only my second session and it was more intense than my first. It’s hard to believe someone as warm and welcoming could inflict so many delightful torments but she does. She gave me all sorts of new experiences using rope, floggers. paddles and vibrators and I loved every second of it. I can’t wait to see what she comes up with next time!”
– John
“As a complete novice, I had plenty of stereotyped ideas of what a Dom/Sub scenario may be and I wasn’t totally sure I wanted to experience every piece of that. Mistress Suzanne took the time to learn more about me before we met and crafted the absolutely perfect first experience for me that pushed my boundaries, had many surprises and at the end opened my mind to an amazing new world!” – Anonymous
Have you ever wanted to be tortured over and over again? Ever wondered just how much you could take? How real is real? That was my last session with Mz Suzanne… 6 hours of being in the hands of a sadist… Now, breaking someone is easy… taking them to the edge, and then pulling them back just so they know you can do it.. and then do it again and again over a period of hours… to slowly break them emotionally and psychologically.. that takes skill.
Imagine standing in the ocean.. waves hitting you.. you cannot fight it’s power.. you can only let it wash over you until the next wave… that’s what my day was like… torture.. rest..torture..rest..torture..rest… of course calling being hogtied tightly on the floor, or being left strung up on tiptoes a ‘rest’ is somewhat subjective… it simply means I wasn’t actually being tortured and screaming and sobbing…. I was beaten, stretched, electrocuted, waterboarded, bagged, restrained in many ways and so much more….. When that happens.. the ‘rests’ only leave you in a state of helplessness wondering, fearing what will happen next.. and you start to know you’re just a toy to be hurt, pushed, used.. 6 hours went by in the blink of an eye.. 3 weeks later.. I still ‘feel’ it… I still have flashbacks… I want more… perhaps ‘this’ is just one long rest until next time.. and she is already plotting and thinking how she will torture me next time…
Having sessioned with professionals over the past 40+ years, both in the US and overseas, it is now fairly easy for me to identify who is, or is not, a top-notch professional. And after having now sessioned with Ms. Suzanne several times, I can state unequivocally that she is world class in all aspects of providing sessions with her clients. Her studio is exceptionally clean, very well organized and stocked with a huge collection of apparatus that should satisfy virtually every fantasy. Here imagination is wide ranging offering opportunities to a wide rang of clients. While she focused very carefully on my likes and dislikes (as discussed during the session request process) she was also able to broaden my horizons by carefully and selectively introducing me to new aspects in the world of S&M. If Ms. Suzanne were able to be rated via Yelp, should be be rated 5 stars *****.
| Before providing feedback let me indicate I view myself as a somewhat typical client of Mistress Suzanne (MS): Background – middle aged, white, male, need to keep marks and interests confidential from family and friends, and have enjoyed my particular interests as long as I can remember. That said, I can assure the reader that MS is well versed in dealing with clients of similar backgrounds and needs, while being more than capable of providing a fun and exciting session. During my initial visit I was more than favorably impressed by how much insight she was able to achieve to my psyche simply by reviewing the application outlining my interests. It was immediately apparent that she was fully prepared for the session, was very creative and clearly in the upper echelon of people providing services in line with what she offers. Her high degree of professionalism was fully apparent upon entering her studio. MS\’s studio is world class and on par with any studio in any major city in the world. Frankly I was a very surprised when I saw the wide range of tastes that could be catered to in her multiple room complex. Her equipment was very well organized, the rooms were large and well laid out and the entire studio was impeccably clean. Session activity, especially for my initial session, was a major step up from what I was used to. It is a bit difficult to describe how the session evolved other than to say that MS was attentive, attuned and cognizant of my needs while providing an exciting and enjoyable session. She was more than capable in dealing with every aspect of my session including bondage and spanking. If this were a customer satisfaction survey I would rate Mistress Suzanne as one of the finest people I have ever dealt with in terms of engaging in an S&M session. I cannot think of any aspect of my dealings with her, from my initial application to providing this feedback (web site is excellent) that did not exceed my expectations. I have been visiting professionals for close to 35 years and frankly viewed my initial session with her as one of the best I’ve ever had. Bottom line – will I go back. No question about it. – D |
Mistress Suzanne provides the perfect combination of placing one under her total control, helpless, yet safe. She fulfills all wishes, desires, and fantasies in the most exciting ways imaginable. She reads one’s hopes and wishes and carries them out in the most inventive ways, adding her own wonderful interpretations to press you to your limits. I am looking forward to being in her charge at my third visit. It is so exciting to be under the total control of a lovely, feminine woman.
I have been in the lifestyle for 30+ years. I sessioned with Suzanne 2 days ago, for the first time. and took a few days to have the session settle in. It was by far the BEST I’ve experienced. Suzanne is an excellent Dom and more than that, a fabulous human being. I loved her energy, spontaneity, abilities and warmth. I felt so safe with her. Be prepared for nonstop action as she does not take a minute break during the session. And she is creative. Be ready for a ton of equipment and she uses all of it with expertise. If you’re into this lifestyle, Suzanne will make you feel welcomed and comfortable, and uncomfortable, if you follow what I’m saying.
What can I say? Mz Suzanne is a real sweetheart. And while that sounds like a strange way to describe a Professional Dominatrix – someone who truly loves her work – it’s true. Her enthusiasm for what she does is obvious. She brings a playfulness to a session while testing your limits. But she never loses sight of safety and consideration for her Slave. She didn’t push too hard – even though I kept insisting on more – and took her time to insure things never got out of hand. We tried lots of new things – imagine a bowling ball dangling from your balls as you do squats – and never disappointed. I live out of town, but you can be sure the next time I come to Connecticut will include a visit with the beautiful Mz Suzanne. I hope she enjoyed things as much as I did. (I would love to hear her review of our time together!)
Mz. Suzanne is a true professional who will meet and exceed your expectations, she will make you feel like you have never felt before. Just OUTSTANDING.
I was very impressed with our session, it was the best 2 hours I have spent in a very long time. She is a true professional who knows how to please and how to control, if I could I would book a session every week. – Jan 2020
Mz Suzanne is highly intuitive, thoughtful, and extremely capable of providing for the stated (and unstated) wishes of her participants. She is attractive, has lovely skin, a beautiful face, and a warm personality. While being incredibly arousing and “cruel” one never feels a sense of danger or real fear. Of course, my desire was for a feminine, soft spoken domme… I’m sure that she can play more domineering roles upon request. You can’t find anyone better or more versatile. – Jan 2020
I have had the pleasure of serving Mistress Suzanne (AKA SxySadist) many times and can’t say enough good things about her skills, humor, scene presence, sensuality, versatility, equipment or concern for those who serve her. She’s very selective about who she sees, takes the time pre-scene to understand what makes you tick, and strives to take you places you didn’t know existed. She’s a class act. LOL… I should probably shut up now… last thing I need is for her schedule to book up to the point where I can’t get in to see her on a regular basis. I need my fix!!! – Neil S
I highly recommend mistress for anyone considering exploring their secret desires. I spend most days in a dominant role at work and home and long fantasized about letting go and being submissive on multiple levels. I assumed I wouldn’t be able to because of my dom nature, but mistress made me comfortable and at ease, and I felt like I was born to serve her. Letting myself go and being in a sub position felt natural and I was achy to please her and accept my discipline. I want to explore further and let her take me in ways I couldn’t have imagined before. But after two sessions I feel like I want to serve mistress and give myself up in ways I never thought I could. I can’t recommend mistress highly enough.
I had a wonderful time with Mz Suzanne, SxySadist – a very appropriate name! As a first time visitor, I appreciated how well organized the scheduling process was and the warm welcome I received. My session was completely fulfilling with a perfect mix of my interests and introduction to new experiences. Ms Suzanne has a very well equipped location and is an extremely experienced professional. I laughed, cried and begged and I look forward to returning.
I’ve been playing in the scene for 16 years, and a can truly say Ms. Suzanne is the best in rope bondage I’ve ever experienced. If you like predicament rope bondage, you have to schedule a session!
Mz Suzanne is unique among professional dommes: she enjoys what she does, she is warm and erotic but cruel and unforgiving. She is creative, talented and exciting. You will become addicted.
Suzanne knows how to test one’s limits. She skillfully combines seduction and sadism. Always great fun.
“SxySadist is a wonderful Mistress. She looks for what makes you happy and then goes for it. Whether it’s bondage or flogging you will enjoy your stay with her. Just remember it’s your ass if you disobey her so you better be on your best behavior or suffer the punishment.”
Hi Mistress, Thank you so much for sending the pictures, they turned out great! Also I want to thank you for the greatest session I have had in quite a few years. You go all out and give 200% in your sessions and I certainly appreciate it. You are a beautiful person, inside, and of course out. Again thank you for all that you did for me and have a great Christmas!!! My rear is still pretty sore so you know you did a good job. I hope I continue to have your permission to see you again and look forward to the next session. Bill.
“Over the two years that I have seen you, you have always provided a wonderful, warm, and caring environment in which I can spend a few short hours with you. In those brief moments you instill a joy and a pleasure and serenity in my life. And that, Ms. SxySadist, is probably one of the greatest things that we can possibly hope to achieve with any other human being.”
I am a first timer and a woman at that. My whole life I craved corporal punishment and have been terrified to do anything about it. I finally got up the nerve and connected with Mistress Suzanne. I have to tell you the thoughts that built up in my mind before I met her were quite silly. I expected Elvira or a female devil worshiper or something. (I know crazy) Instead I was greeted by a kind, funny, warm person that made me feel safe from the first time she spoke.
At that same time she was dominant and very much in control and I was more than fine with that. Her skill and professionalism blew me away. What I felt and experienced was mind blowing to me. It was an incredible journey of pain and spiritual bliss.
My advice for what it is worth, if you have thought about it, just do it. Life is meant to be experienced not spectated. So stop watching videos and live it. You will be thankful that you did.
“i love your smile and how comfortable you make me feel. i left feeling like their was a bond(age) between us, in a way that was quite touching. i felt like you really would like me to return for another session and not just for the business, but for mutual pleasure.”
“I have to say you fulfilled my desires. You are very experienced in what you do and that makes me comfortable to trust you with my body. It was wonderful experience.”
Wow, when I think about how last time you managed my orgasm and didn’t let me ejaculate, I still have my mind blown! That was so incredibly erotic!! The way it worked was really nice: I had tried to seriously relax my PC muscles until I reached the “Point of No Return,” and then I pushed down on them as hard as I could. With your helping me by compressing my urethra, that truly shut down all physical release. But I still experienced the neural release. That was the first time I had ever experienced that sensation, and it was amazing! That was awesome!!
Thank you for an unforgettable experience on the morning of July 6th. You took me through my fantasy and beyond to places I never considered going before. I would not have changed a thing about the session. The moments of tenderness you added were unexpected and added a heightened sensuality to the whole experience. Your statuesque figure is captivating in person and really enhances your dominant role.
I thought you to be understanding & you made me feel at ease knowing that I was very nervous. Thank you so much. Your patience with me relaxed me a great deal. I look forward to coming again.
I want to thank you again and again for having me over. You were patient, understanding, careful, playful, seductive, and sensual. Next time I intend to be less nervous and hope to be able to enjoy the experience even more.
On a personal note, I found you very warm caring and just how good you really are comes through your personality. Your approach to the scene is comfortable and you want your participants to like the session as you do.
Please accept my thanks, again, for the opportunity to get together with you during my visit to Ny. I want to tell you that, not only did I thoroughly enjoy our session; I must tell you that it was about the very best session I have experienced. You are masterful, insightful, skilled AND extremely attractive. You were able to easily take me where I could not imagine and I wound up enjoying the challenges. You certainly knew exactly how to lead me and where to lead me. I thank you once again for this powerful experience.
I am writing this for all of the newbies out there who have fantasized about seeing a Dominatrix. I know you’ve dreamt about doing this for a long time. I did too. I read the various papers, searched numerous web sites, trying to find just the right woman. At the same time thinking what am I doing, you don’t know this person. What if she’s a flake? What if I get there and she seriously hurts me? These things go through all of our minds.
Well, let me put you at ease. I drove over 2 hours to visit Suzanne. It was without a doubt the most exhilarating experience of my life. When I arrived I was extremely nervous and she quickly put me at ease. She went very easy with me, knowing that I was a total newbie. I felt that she could have pushed me much harder but she was more concerned with me than seeing how far she could push me. She was gentle, kind, concerned and very caring during the entire time. She has a wonderful personality and an awesome sense of humor. Obviously from her pictures she is very attractive, much more so in person than the pictures on her web site show. Rest assured, she is not some man hating bitch with a whip trying to work off her aggression. I experienced a little bit of CBT, nipple torture, some time on the cross being flogged and caned and then over to the bondage table for some introduction to electric toys and then some waxing. By the time I left her awesome dungeon I knew I had found the woman to introduce me to my fantasies and I would definitely be back to see the Sexy Sadist.
If your considering contacting a Mistress, please do yourself a favor and contact Suzanne.
Dear Ms Suzanne,
I can’t begin to describe how incredibly wonderful yesterday was. There is no doubt that I came to the right person to lead me on the path that I started on yesterday. Your wisdom, dominance, experience and sensuality gave me the trust to know that whatever you decided we should do was the right thing for me to experience at that moment. You made it so easy to turn myself over to you. It was all so natural and so right with you. I know, with no reservations, that you are the one to teach me this way. I can’t wait until we can arrange for my next lesson. You are incredible.
Thank you, Name Withheld
Excerpts from Feedback Forms
Did you enjoy our session: Yes, I really did enjoy the session. You are kind and considerate, and loving as well the few moments you spent covering me up and holding me and telling me i deserve the best was amazing.
Any other comments: Well MzSxy, all i can tell you is thank you. You took your time with me and i appreciate that. Your kind words during, and the fact that you seemed to not only enjoy it, but puzzled alike, made it especially enjoyable. The time you took to hug me in the beginning was wonderful and also afterwards the extra special care that i needed Thank you very very much!!
Did you enjoy our session: Oh My, Yes!
Impressions of me: Filtered by the delightfully foggy mist of this slave\’s \”Afterglow\”: No words are adequate to describe how much you have again made me so very happy to be alive. Seeing you and being with you for even a short time has rejuvenated my spirit. As always, your ability to positively touch my heart and soul and fantasies, is a gift, one I will always remember – forever – Thank you Mistress.
What did you enjoy the most: Your rope work, the way you would see right through me, and your \”in-your-face\” sensuality
What did you enjoy the most: Learning the breathing technique. The CBT in the swing is mind blowing.
What did you enjoy the least: That It had to end.
What would you like to do most next time: Explore the erotic massage techniques.
Impressions of me: You are a very professional Mistress and i liked the fact that you respected my limits. You are definitely very good at what you do and when i decide to have another session you are the Mistress that i will have it with because you definitely proved yourself to me.
Did you enjoy our session: I enjoyed it more than I can say – I left feeling light in spirit and as happy as it’s possible to be!
Impressions of me: Just what I’d hoped – you were kind, yet ‘in charge,’ and there was a perfect balance of teasing and pain. All one or all the other would not have been as good. You have incredible skills and a beautiful personality.
What did you enjoy the most: I enjoyed being fastened, helpless, but most especially when you stood very close and leaned your body against mine — slightly threatening yet full of love.
Impressions of me: Where to start on this one? The first words that to come to mind are: honesty, openness, and sense of self. Based upon your website, reputation, and home-based location, I knew that I would be meeting a lifestyle scene player. What I did not expect, and what was a wonderful surprise, was your willingness to share information, background, opinions, experiences, and most of all your life details. I felt honored to learn so much about you during our first session.
Did you enjoy our session: Very much so. Thanks!
Impressions of me: As you come across in your website that’s how you are in person, no phony. You enjoy playing and it comes out in a session
What did you enjoy the most: Of course anal and dildo play. You knew that’s what i was into and arranged our session around it.
Did you enjoy our session: Yes very much I didn’t appreciate how much until I left and thought more about what I just experienced.
Impressions of me: I found you to be easily likeable, comfortable to be with, attractive, perceptive to my needs, and most seductive.
Did you enjoy our session: Yes, very, very much. As a novice, you made me feel very comfortable. I am glad that you were the first to teach me.
Impressions of me: I think you are a wonderful person. My impression of this life style is a little scary, but you made that go away. I like your manners and the way you handled me. You made me feel at ease. You are truly a wonderful person.
What did you enjoy the most: I enjoyed all of it! Even the metal rods! The way you introduced everything to me, I wanted more. After I left, I had a smile on my face that I think no one could have removed. I really felt good. I liked everything so far. The way you explained things to me, made me feel part of all this.
Did you enjoy our session: Hmm.. on a scale of 1-10?……its a ten, no hesitation
Impressions of me: You walk that very fine line between pain and pleasure very successfully. There is something about you that is intangibly very sensual, obviously intelligent, eyes that possess a great deal of expression, very powerful when you want to be…but internally vulnerable…just my impressions
What did you enjoy the most: Nipple torture…(my personal erogenous zone)…anal tease.
Did you enjoy our session: I enjoyed it more than you can imagine. As nervous and scared as I was, you have a way about you that calmed me down.
Impressions of me: You’re everything I could image and more. You play the body like a professional violinist. The power, sensitivity and sensuality, all mixed with your sense of humor and playfulness is a powerful combination. You are one special woman.
What did you enjoy the most: When you tied me up. The skill you displayed in doing so, plus the fact I never knew what you were going to do next. You definitely, pushed my limits.
Did you enjoy our session: Suzanne, I had a great time!! You pushed a lot of different buttons (Even taking my cherry!!) but it was an awesome session.
Impressions of me: You were great. You’re as attractive in person as in photos. I thought you were strong yet playful. It’s obvious you enjoy what you do. Additionally, you were able to pick up on statements I made very quickly and use them in the session.
What did you enjoy the most: The experience!! I needed to connect with someone in the BDSM world that was real. You were fun, engaging, honest, and had fun along with me. Physically, I enjoyed it all. As I said before, I’ve not anywhere near covered the spectrum of things to do so trying new things was great. In particular, your approach to the urethral sounds was very soothing for me – I didn’t know what to expect.
What did you enjoy the least: There really wasn’t anything that I didn’t particularly enjoy.
Any other comments: Suzanne, I thought the session was the best I’ve had in years. Our personalities meshed, it was fun, and my horizons were expanded. Thank you, can’t wait to see you again.
