I had an absolutely wonderful time last night at “The Church,” a lively and kinky club in the New Paltz area run by an incredible group of kinksters! I attended for the first time two weeks ago for a Spanking Party, which was delightfully fun. We played games like “Family Feud” and adult “Trivial Pursuit,” with answers that resulted in playful spanks for the bottoms—hilarious, chaotic, and such a blast! So much so, that when they announced another event, “Kinky Tastings”, I eagerly volunteered as a skilled top to offer some electrical play. Coincidentally, on the morning of the event, I was also asked to manage the play piercings station because the designated top had an emergency schedule conflict. (However, only one brave soul volunteered to let me do needles on him.)

“Kinky Tastings” is just what it sounds like—a curated sampler of BDSM activities. In this case, five skilled tops provided interested participants with a taste of different sensations and tools, always with consent, respecting limits, and aiming to give folks a feel for what they might want to explore further. Last night’s “kinky buffet” included violet wand electric play, needles, knife play, mummification, flogging, and rope.

I packed all my favorite wand attachments, accessories, and even the neon glass tubes—though I rarely use them with clients, since I adore the hands-on option so much more. I forgot how stunning those neon glass tubes look in the dark!

I was kept busy almost the entire 3.5 hours, with a line of people eager to let me explore their bodies with my electric sensations. Some wonderful masochists even allowed me to crank the wand up to quite intense, zapping levels! I felt truly honored by the trust placed in me, especially considering many of these people had only just met me or seen me once before.

I spent the most time with a sweet submissive male, unowned__sub, who left a lasting impression. I first met him at the Spanking Party—he was so polite and respectful. While there, I discovered that he had just given away the most beautiful hairbrush I had ever seen to another submissive who asked for it! It was a vintage ebony handled, boars bristle brush that was just so striking I couldn’t take my eyes off it! Ugh! I was so jealous! Many may not know this about me, but I have a bit of a fetish—perhaps obsession—for wooden hair brushes. They’re classic spanking implements, perfectly innocent for travel, and I have long hair which makes them extra versatile. At the party, I had coveted that brush so much I even offered a deliciously sensual spanking exchange for it, but he turned me down. Once I hope home, I even searched online for similar brushes but came up empty —though I’ve ordered a few interesting ones from eBay since. LOL I couldn’t help myself!

What truly touched me was that this sweet submissive had messaged me before “Kinky Tastings” to say he had ordered a gift for me that he was excited to give during the event. He had also brought a beautiful heavy birch paddle with a butter soft leather wrap on the handle that I had complimented him on at the “Spanking Party” and had one just like it custom made for me—such a thoughtful and generous gesture!

But midway through the evening I discovered that he had also found another ebony hair brush that he initially said he was going to keep for himself. He playfully teased me a bit about it beforehand, which earned him a playful spank, but he told me had had intended to gift it to me as well all along. Then he knelt, head bowed, and presented it to me, I was very moved—what a remarkable moment. 🙂 Sadly, he will be moving away soon, heading south to be with an ailing family member, but he made a lasting impression on me. I will cherish both the paddle and the hairbrush forever.