I feel like I am always apologizing for when life gets in the way of me consistently checking in with you here, (and on social media) but my life can get pretty chaotic and whirlwind-y sometimes. As is par for the course, the last 2 weeks has had a mix of ups and downs.
First up – and weighing most heavily on my head and heart at the moment, a few days ago, I had had an amazingly fun day at Lake Compounce with my favorite 20-something year old, riding roller coasters, hitting water slides and wave pools and generally having a blast (above) and after dropping them off at their place, I got home and was told that my autistic, disabled ex-husband had lost the DHS appeal which significantly increases the chances that he will be involuntarily sent back to Canada, a place where he has not lived in over 30 years, and has no real support system. whew. Yes, that was a very long run-on sentence and it was intended to make you feel as frustrated and out of breath as I am right now) 🙁
To make matters worse – much of Canada has breed specific legislation that would prevent him from bringing his sweet and truly beloved deaf pittie with him. I am beyond heart-broken, scared, angry and sick to my stomach about this, but we are diligently trying to figure out how to help him soften the blow should the worst come to pass. If any of y’all believe in sending positive energy towards helping a complete stranger – I will take every prayer, good wish and positive vibe we can manage right now with a lot of gratitude.
Back to happier notes… before all this stuff hit the fan, Myke and I went into the city to catch Delilah Bon in concert on the first night of her first US tour. It was a really nice evening out and scratched my concert itch for the time being!
And in a surprising turn of events even for me, after 45 years I finally decided that I was ready to get some new ink! I have had a fairly nasty scar on my left arm for probably close to 30 years and I suddenly decided it was time to do something with that. I put out a call on Facebook to ask anyone and everyone who their favorite tattoo artist was and started checking out a few dozen tattoo shops and artists until one artists’ Instagram page literally stopped me in my tracks!
This guy’s art was freaking AMAZING and come on – his business is called “Painful Pleasures Sanctuary” how could I NOT find that intriguing? I somehow just KNEW that he could bring my vision to life for me! So, I brought my favorite whip made by Joe Wheeler to him and asked him if he could create a tattoo of my specific whip on my arm wrapping down from the upper arm and ending in the scar and he said yes! So far I have had 2 sessions with him and I am blown away by the level of detail he is putting into it.
As for the sensation? Honestly I was good with all of it until he got to the inside,, under arm soft bits! Damn! That shit sucked and I really had to put all my deep breathing, stay grounded, don’t scream like “a little girl” skills to the test.
Next up – when this part has healed sufficenty he will add the red and pops of white that will give it that 3D look I desire. 🙂 I am super excited and may already have another idea or three for other tats that I would like!
Oh and while I was at it I decided to get my hair done again by my favorite hair stylist extraordinaire – Natalie! She is wonderful and comes right to my house and is looking for new clients so if you need a cut or color or anything, HMU and I will share her contact info.
As for play time, I have had several really delightful sessions the last few weeks, but mostly with folks that can’t be photographed for privacy reasons. (and a few where I was just having WAY TOO MUCH FUN to remember to take pics – lol!) But here are a couple I did manage to grab. Using the cock stocks was a LOT of fun and my friend was impressed with just how immobilizing that was!
One of the people that has been visiting me a fair bit lately goes by the name “Kathi” and has become especially dear to me. So much so that I gifted this little darling with my one and only “Sissy” tag on a necklace that she can wear to remember she is mine. 🙂
And to finish off I figured I would add an obligatory selfie or three of me and my feet for those that enjoy them as well as a pic of a new blacklight tapestry I have added to the main play space. I fell in love with it at Shamanic Kink and searched for it when I got home.
Oh and here is a lovely bit of feedback from a sweet newbie that I met last week.
| “Hi everyone i just had my first in person session with Mz. Suzanne and I couldn’t be more happier to find someone like her. Im not from Connecticut but I was looking for someone I can meet and have an in person session with and she popped up. I saw we both had some of the same favorite kinks and I loved her from there. We set up a session and I was so nervous but she was very calm and very kind to me which I loved. It made me feel safe and that was awesome. We first got me dressed and that felt amazing and then she showed me some of her toys like floggers and electro wands. Then she took me over to the spanking bench and that was a great experience. I could feel each hit as it went through my body. Finally she put me on the table and then she took out her strap-on and honestly it was one of the best feelings I’ve ever felt. She made me feel so good and it was awesome. I highly recommend her to anyone who’s either a newbie or experienced. She will make u feel welcome at all times and you’ll have a great session.” -Anonymous August 2025 |
Wow – Aww shucks that’s sweet huh? 🙂
Ohh and I JUST GOT this very cool forever business card from www.dotcards.net that has my number. website and EVERYTHING all in one place. Check it out if you dare!
Ok that’s all for today! Have a great last gasp of summer y’all!
