Barbara C, Paddles Play & APeX

Well, it turned out to be a fairly fun weekend in spite of the “change of plans”.  I discovered Thursday night that my friend and colleague Barbara Carrellas (author of “Urban Tantra”) was presenting a class up the block at Vassar College as part of the same series of workshops that I am presenting in next week (and by the way Sheri Winston will be there the week after me).

Anyway. Barbara was calling this class “Gender Free Orgasms” Or something rather curiously nebulous like that but of course it was an excuse to teach breath work and of course, I had to be there.  I very much enjoyed suprising the hell out of her when I stolled in and sharing a really juicy hug with her.  After he class I invited her back to my place for the nickel tour, a cup of tea, and some catch up time.  It was really nice to have her over.

The next evening my friend and birthday brother Dov (born same day same year as me but on different continents) was presenting a class on sinle tails at Paddles.  Well, God know that is another of my favorite things so I popped on down to the city to throw some kangaroo around!! <grin> My girlfriend Troy said she would meet me there with a gentleman friend of hers whom I had met and helped torment once before!

Well, after the class she and I proceeded to tag team the hell out of this boy for at least 2 hours! We started him off with some fairly awkward bondage (I like predicament ties) and then began the impact play and tickle torture!!  Let me tell ya,  when we were through with him we were all pretty much shot!  We stopped over to the diner for some breakfast and I think I crawled into the door around 330 in the morning.

Of course Brett was arriving at 9 a.m. to wake me up and snuggle for a bit then we had to finish packing and head up toward the Albany area to present 2 classes for APeX (The Albany Power eXchange).  The classes were being held at an absolutely beautiful farmhouse property about an hour and a half north of me that was owned by a man named Master David.  There was probably around 20 people in attendance, some of whom I had met before in the are or at other events and both classes seemed to go pretty well.

After the classes I was itching to play and the dungeon space had this absolutely beautiful suspension worthy beam so I strung my ring up to it and began roping the man I love. He and I had just received a new batch of 180 feet of silk rope from Madame Butterfly and I was very much looking forward to properly christening my virgin silk. I tied several under arm bands around Brett’s chest and then laid several more bands of silk over the arms.  Since the silk is not rated for suspension I have taken to laying some foundation bands of it on the body and then layering over enough bands of hemp to actually support the weight of the torso.  I then laid a band around his lower thigh and lifted it as high into the air as I was able. balancing him just a bit precarioiusly on one foot. I proceeded to lace his rings and stretch and torment his testicles.  (Did I mention that I like predicament bondage?)  <grin>

It was actually one of the sexiest scenes I had done with my sweetheart as a top in quite a awhile and I pushed him very close to his edge with a slender cane, my beloved “big stick” and my favorite whip which I threw at him as I lay on the ground looking up at his very handsome form.  I actually got really damn horny during that scene and had so totally wished that we were home, so we actually cut out of the party fairly early and made the trek back at a reasonable hour, however by the time we got home we were both pretty exhausted and so we crawled into bed and snuggled and spooned and fell fast asleep.

sadly, he had to take off fairly early this morning to head home to Long Island but I am really looking forward to him coming out Thursday night to help me with my bondage class at Vassar and then spend the rest of the weekend just spending time together.. no events, no other commitments,  just a well deserved weekend off totally to ourselves.   Sounds like a little slice of heaven to me.

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